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Hmmoklolthisisfine · 2021-10-15T06:09:40+00:00

I date new women weekly and I always kiss when the moment feels right. I don’t make up rules or create self limiting beliefs which only hold you back. Your goal should be sex on the first date and if you know what you’re doing it is more than possible.

I understand where you’re coming from because I used to think like you. Honestly I did. I made up silly rules like I have to wait until the end of a date to kiss her or I have to wait until the third date to sleep with her. I made up these rules because my subconscious mind was scared of rejection. The more I waited and acted passive, the more I only turned women off that were into me. I legit had girls get pissed at me for not fucking them and I would say nonchalantly “I was waiting until the third date” I sounded like a scared dumbass.

I learned my lesson through experience and I’m sure you will too.

Go in for the kiss next time when the moment is right.

Inferno456 · 2021-10-15T05:52:16+00:00

I remember a while back I went on a first date with a guy and at the end he asked of he could kiss me, because he wanted to but also wanted to make sure I was okay with it too. That stuck with me and I thought it was the sweetest thing ever. Instead of going in for it and possibly getting rejected he just asked. I usually don't kiss on the 1at date either unless it goes REALLY well, but I did because I loved that he asked. Maybe it's a move that he uses?...whatever it was it worked for me.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-15T06:05:28+00:00

But my mind has this unspoken rule of no kisses on the first date.

This is the type of thinking on why most guys fail over and over again with women..

By not kissing her in this situation it shows that you weren't confident enough in yourself to be a man and go after what you want.

This is the type of thing that will turn most women off, and lead you to never seeing them again.

3Equilibrium · 2021-10-15T06:33:40+00:00

How can you hold hands but not kiss? 🙄

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