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[–]Havocnumbanine 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I kid u not I thought this post was coming from a gay man lol. What game do you need as a woman? I’m asking because I can’t see where it would be necessary🤷🏾♂️. This sounds more of a confidence thing and how you view yourself.
[–]CrochetCookie24 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
hahaha i can see how you would think that! yeah, guess it is a confidence thing. seems like i lost some of it somewhere along the way
[–]norwegiandoggo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The time to pick up Bradley Coopers who are long-term viable is when they have left a relationship not too long ago. They have had some fun but now they want to settle down again. It's a timing thing. You have to hit them right at that moment.
[–]lozboss 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly- just because a guy us high value doesn't mean he'll want a relationship with good looking air heads.
Casual sex sure- but often you'll find that they are looking for a spark beyond the skin deep.
Just back yourself with humility and focus on just enjoying yourself.
[–]JacobMoogberg69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I give women the same advise as I give men. Be yourself. You are trying to read this man's mind and you can't do that. How do you know that maybe every woman looks at him and say "oh he is a good looking fuckboy and probably won't be good in bed", and maybe he is lonely and never taken seriously? Maybe every woman he comes across treats him like some arm candy and a dumb jock and that makes him feel dehumanized and fetishized? You don't know any of this. You are making assumptions.
Your friends are also idiots. What's the point of getting a guy by pretending you are more than you are, by posturing and being sultry and mysterious if that's not you? What do you have to prove to a man? Nothing. The more you try to impress him, the less seriously he will take you because you make his opinion of you more important than your own opinion of yourself.
[–]Minute-Lie-2287 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
So personally I'd probably find your attitude and just being relaxed and non- mysterious extremely charming. You don't get approached in a group because you likely come across as not bullshitable. They're more intimidated. Your girlfriend's think they're being mysterious ( which guys mostly hate) but they actually come across as simply more docile.
Bear this in mind, your reservations may be correct. Especially in OLD. Here's the typical scenario.
app has 10 men to every woman plus every man magically grows balls because it's not face to face
So every girls inbox is flooded, guys are scrambling for attention and heavily lower their standards.Every woman then believes this is the league she is in so she goes for the best choice then wonders why she got played.
That said, all I can tell you is go for it. From your post you already state you're in this " BC" value range. You don't believe it though, because you've put the class of guys you refer to on a pedestal. That's all you have to stop. They aren't super special, they have plenty of problems and issues too. Besides when it comes to having the opposite sex figured out, the best guy at it is 10 laps behind 90 percent of women.
Lastly, get a guy to check out your communication. While you might second guess... basically any guy is gonna see through any bullshit in about five seconds.
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