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[–]Yuva0 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are soooooooooo many ways but firstly change your mindset. Think of it as a game. There's a reason it's called having a game because it is just a game. Don't take it seriously. Chill out.
When you are serious, you look for ways to logically get laid with her BUT when you chill out and relax, you are just having fun and girls want that, they want to have fun. So more emotional, less logical.
[–]AloofusMaximus 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can’t move things on text to save my life. I just wanna ask her out before she gets bored.
You're not an idiot, just too inside your own damn head. This is super easy actually. Here's a couple of examples...
"Hey I'm doing (insert thing) on (insert day) you should come".
"Let's grab a drink, are you free (insert day)".
[–]rustoof 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Say that you are going to do something fun at a specific date and time and ask her if she wants to come.
Bonus points if you call instead of text, and give a reason why you need an answer soon. I.e. "I can only bring one person"
[–]1keentolearn12 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ask her out before she gets bored. Do it today
[–]Low_Reception_54 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I just did she agreed thanks
[–]1keentolearn12 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well done.
Good luck
[–]vigilanting 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just ask her out before she gets bored trust me. Less mind games more intention.
I just did she agreed. Thx
[–]vigilanting 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Congrats king. Took me lots of missed opportunities before finding this out. Think of texting as a resume. The purpose of a resume ain't to find you a job but to get ur foot in the door so you can have a chance for a job interview. Similarly texting alone ain't gonna get you a girl, all it does is set you up for a date, which is your chance to make a good impression. Good companies get millions of resumes a year, similarly if the girl is sweet she's gonna have at least 3 guys actively texting her and shit tons more in her DMS. If you don't make ur intentions clear ur gonna get buried. On the other hand, if you are direct and confident, you might not be the best looking guy in her DMS but you may be lucky enough to snag a date before others get to.
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