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[–]Therocksays2020 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ignore her and see if she messages you. Maybe is usually code for “if I don’t have better options” or “keep giving me attention”
[–]Yunngjedi 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Good god don’t listen to either of those previous comments xD Idk how u explained your schedule to her but the fact that she replies to you instantly shows that she interested enough to not play with your time in the first place. She likes you and wants to see you but MAYBE SHE has a busy schedule as well. I am assuming that she choose Saturday becuz u hinted to her that u may have some availability that day. But if anything its better than a “maybe next weekend” or “idk maybe some other time then”. Those texts usually leave you in a situation where one or the other just ghosts.
[–]Roman-ticks 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Never told her about Saturday, but she did offer a reschedule. I guess I'm just not sure how to handle the "maybe". If she wanted to see me I don't feel like she would've used "maybe"
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“Maybe “ she needs to get care for her kid, “maybe” that is a night she already has plans with her girls but might meet you early. “Maybe” could Mean a lot of things. “Maybe” she has to pick her car from the shop at 6. Don’t stress it. Say let’s keep casual and have a late afternoon coffee and it we click we can plan a second date
[–]FarCombination7405 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Roman,or MAAAAAAYBE …………………..
[–]FarCombination7405 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tell her that Saturday is perfect and your honored to get her for a little time on the weekend.idk if you sound very open minded to someone else stirring up your schedule a bit my dude,check it..It’s going to be extremely uncomfortable at first but in comparison to loneliness it doesn’t even shake a stick. sacrifice.all but God,Family(healthy)..grace,Self care,mental and physical awareness and the ability to grow without shrinking ANYBODY ELSE in the process.This will produce love and guess what big dawg? It might be the healthy one but If you play schedule games and give her a little short period of time that she can pick from for no apparent reason because you’re kind of busy you’ll be searching till the day you die my friend or you’ll end up with some codependent yard sale of pig pen dust flying around sucking the life out of you LOLThe patient guy willing to sacrifice anything that he can for the girl with dignity and never worried about looking shamed or being a sucker for giving in to her. It’s not, it’s giving to and as gods children as long as we’re handing our hand out to receive we will only get Foss and very temporary happiness. Reach your hand out and call her this morning and tell her whatEvery time she can see you on Saturday will work keep your whole schedule open so that you’re ready for her and take charge with where are you take her and what your plans are don’t even ask.That may include routine in which I know seems like a lot of peoples foundation but really it’s like a positive addiction that we know keeps us on track. Tricky part about that is sometimes our track looks good to everybody else and will pass inspection but it does not make us happy. So you can sacrifice the girl for the schedule or the schedule for the girl in the grand scheme of things in the big picture anyway.Balance balance balance balance and moderation will make any boy look like a man and any man not look like a boy. Don’t let a boy steal your girl or her find out that your still a boy playing games.My friend this is not a dig at you at all I’m kind of giving myself the same advice as I type. It’s why I love commenting on this stuff because I give myself answers and advice. 🙏💪🏻🤙🏻Good luck my dude and God bless
[–]Amkg2020[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah it's no big deal just if you can and she can might aswell try get some
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