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[–]Moikepdx 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you need to polarize. Send some more sexy text messages. If she’s into it, she’ll reciprocate. If you’ve been “friend zoned” you’ll find out quickly and can move on.
[–]bmunger718 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Perfect advise see if she wants a text buddy or not. Some women love the dopamine high of hearing a ping every 5 mins.
[–]excentrik-art 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I would suggest othervise, sexting almost never leads to actual dates.
Stay adamant that you want to skype with camera
[–]Moikepdx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The point is neither to sext nor get a date here. It’s much more immediate than that. He needs to find out whether there is any sexual attraction. Saying something racy will either offend or attract. That’s the polarization. Any positive response means he can move forward with her. A negative response means stop wasting time. He needs to find out where he stands.
[–]excentrik-art 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True, true, that should work
[–]SummerSplash 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To me this is an orange flag. You never met yet she sends you so many messages.
Could be that she doesn't have any long term friends, and possibly some other emotional issues.
Edit: I wrote this ^ before I read the other comments telling you something similar.
[–]Emortalrat 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's branch swinging until she finds the next guy to give her attention.
Cut to the chase and meet her in real life.
[–]MrSaturdayRight 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Run
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[–]MrSaturdayRight 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Anybody who texts that much is not right
[–]Bath 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Sounds unstable. I'd avoid
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[–]Bath 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't even know her. You know an image of her cultivated by your mind, based on the messages. Skype doesn't count. Especially when you don't even seem to have video called.
[–]wakawah 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Smash or dash pimp
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