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TrendyLepomis · 2021-11-17T00:40:21+00:00

she is probably giving you space since you said you were extremely busy. confirm the date wednesday night.

silc789 · 2021-11-16T22:32:20+00:00

Hmm it's almost as if she has a life.

XanthicStatue · 2021-11-17T04:22:01+00:00

In other news, this same women is posting on r/dating asking why a guy she hooked up with hasn’t texted her and what she did wrong 🙄

BoomerPhilosophee · 2021-11-16T21:41:32+00:00

Its been 3 days.

Relax.

SaltLeader3687 · 2021-11-16T22:58:00+00:00

You need to set definite dates. Saying “let’s plan for Thursday” without a time and place booked is setting yourself up to get stood up or cancelled on.

You need to reach out in a way that lets you plan a definite date

Murky-Finish1733 · 2021-11-16T23:10:20+00:00

I would say something like “excited to see you tmr”. So then you can start talking and it doesn’t kill the momentum you have going on. Once that momentum is dead it will never come back.

FruitCreamSicle · 2021-11-17T05:33:46+00:00

If u haven’t set up a time to meet on Thursday you should initiate contact to do that and only that, set up a time, Great see you then! And leave it at that

Leclarkie · 2021-11-17T07:04:21+00:00

Speaking as a woman, I can pretty much guarantee she is waiting for you to message her - you asked her out for Thursday, so she is expecting you to get in touch to confirm plans. Often we don’t want to come across as needy or clingy, especially if you’ve already told her you’re really busy this week. Just message her saying you’re looking forward to seeing her and suggest meeting at X place at Y time. Job done. Enjoy your date!

Asleep-Blackberry534 · 2021-11-16T21:41:53+00:00

Have you reached out to her?

ScorpioBex · 2021-11-17T01:08:29+00:00

She might be waiting for you to initiate. Many people on dating sites are looking for hookups and she may not know your intent.

sauceyzaddy · 2021-11-17T02:33:23+00:00

Don’t get pussy whipped bro.

PuroPincheGains · 2021-11-17T02:30:08+00:00

Date someone else

thecondoner · 2021-11-16T23:57:50+00:00

It’s okie, take a deep breath. She might be waiting for you to say something.

Talliss1 · 2021-11-17T03:06:33+00:00

She's probably busy. You told her you would be busy, so BE busy. If she hits up, cool. If not then just hit her wednesday/Thursday morning to confirm if y'all still on. Never give a woman the impression that she takes up most of your time, or got you figured out...it's an attraction killer.

2021-11-17T03:21:16+00:00

op is in a tough spot. sounds like she's purposefully not initiating. surely you've crossed her mind with a night like that. it's either that or she's a flake. either way, not good.

jsb0299 · 2021-11-17T06:29:54+00:00

I consider myself bad at texting for some reason. So every time I’m talking to a new girl I try not to text her a lot and only text her to plan a date or something like that. I want my space and surely she needs hers too

fjklm · 2021-11-17T07:39:19+00:00

You can send a short feeler without expectations of a reply telling her you’re thinking about her and look forward to meeting her. It’ll be well received.

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Date	November 16, 2021 9:33 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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