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[–]SpecialPowerss 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
don't let the fact that she swallows fool you buddy 😂
[–]vdfgajt 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I swallow if I feel like it at the time, I don’t think “oh I don’t really like this guy so I’m not gonna swallow”. That thought literally never crosses my mind
[–]ShampooMonK -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Funny as fuck, can you explain what you mean SpecialPowers? But from my experience, women do not like to swallow though.
[–]norwegiandoggo 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link
It's very simple. If you're a noob, you don't say anything and hope she won't mention it. But of course she inevitably does and then you'll tell her you don't want anything serious and then she'll probably leave crying and call you a jerk for leading her on.
If you've been in the game for a while, you will set her expectations very early on, prior to having sex with her. You will tell her straight up that you're not looking for anything serious and you will tell her that on the first date. You usually never have to worry about this "conversation" after that. She knows what this is, you know what this is. There's no confusion and no-one feels mislead or used. In the end, everyone is happier.
[–]Mog_Melm 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Extremely accurate.
[–]ShampooMonK 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So should I voice this when I see her tomorrow night? I'm going to be cooking dinner for both of us and we'll be netflixing/chilling.
To be fair, I've had my fair share of hook ups at night clubs, bars, and EDM shows; but most of them were ONS and it was already implied I wasn't going to call them back.
[–]Mog_Melm 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I personally would not bring it up. Just keep doing what you're doing. Live the dream. She'll bring it up when she's done.
I think doggo's analysis is right. I wouldn't classify you as "been in the game for a while", and I mean that in the nicest way. I'd go with Plan A. Many people have advised you not to bring it up, so maybe you can help quantify for us why you're still considering it.
She is perfectly aware that she doesn't have to keep returning your messages. When she wants something to be different, she'll have "the talk" aka "define the relationship". That means "I'm done having fun, random sex. Do you want a proper relationship? The 'new penis' smell has worn off, and I'm done having casual sex with you. But maybe we can have a relationship!"
That's my $.02. Disclaimer: I don't necessarily know what I'm talking about.
[–]ShampooMonK 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wouldn't classify you as "been in the game for a while", and I mean that in the nicest way.
Not at all, and I don't take offense to that at all lol. My body count is around 20+, but half of them have been random hookups, ONS's and other than a few relationships/LTR ones. But I've studied a lot of game, PUA tactics, and have gotten help from my friend who has worked closely with SoSuave. I actually asked him what he thought and he recommended me to just keep smashing and ignore bringing it up.
so maybe you can help quantify for us why you're still considering it.
At first, I was. I do think I'm okay with just hooking up, and seeing where it goes. I haven't been in a relationship since briefly a few weeks but I got cheated on LOL, so I guess I was sort of thinking maybe she could be a cool girl to date.
Yeah, she could've ignored my texts and moved on. I think I'll just play it by the ear, but I will take doggo's advice and let it be clear from the beginning what this could entail future wise for any potential hookup's that may come along the line.
To be honest, I'm talking to other girls as well, and have two girls in my rotation. I guess I'm just tired of sleeping around, would prefer something stable since I'm so busy.
Thanks for your 2 cents.
[–]Mog_Melm 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Best of luck to you sorting out your "champagne problem" of looking for a high quality woman to get to know while having to suffer through casual sex with attractive women.
[–]ShampooMonK 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's very simple. If you're a noob, you don't say anything and hope she won't mention it. But of course she inevitably does and then you'll tell her you don't want anything serious and then she'll leave crying and call you a jerk for misleading her.
We met at a friend's celebration at a concert afterparty. So neither one of us mentioned anything about that, not on the uber ride back home, not at my place, or not in the morning when we had morning sex + showering together. I did tell her I wanted to see her again and to exchange contact info.
If you've been in the game for a while, you will set her expectations from very early on, on the first date, prior to having sex with her. You will tell her straight up that you're not looking for anything serious and you will tell her that on the first date. You never have to worry about this "conversation" after that.
That's fair, but we didn't do any dates, we went straight to fuckin lol.
[–]norwegiandoggo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You should have told her right before the fucking in that case ;-)
[–]ShampooMonK 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Let's just say I was a little preoccupied with several things holding my attention ;)
Well, do you suggest me to not bring it up until she does, or should I just let her know I'm not looking for anything serious but would like to see where this goes?
[–]norwegiandoggo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think at this point you might as well wait because you'll probably ruin it. But with the next girl it's good to be proactive.
[–]JacobMoogberg69 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Before you hook up
[–]larryd86 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You're getting the sex. You're in! No need to complicate things with an overrated committed relationship.
Agreed, I dunno what I'm thinking LOL. I recently got in a relationship with someone who was very into me, and she cheated on me. I should be happy that I'm getting it in with no commitment.
[–]larryd86 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right no commitment no issues
[–]Useful_Percentage_19 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I recommend casually telling her you would date her do it in a joking manner and cover it up quick by changing rooms or task or something so she doesn’t know if your serious or not and so if she wants to date you she’ll speak on it if not she’ll keep fucking you,
[–]ShampooMonK 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
wants to date you she’ll speak on it if not she’ll keep fucking you,
I'm cool with the keep fucking me part honestly.
[–]LowkeyHungry1988 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Personally, I think you should just have fun until she mentions something about it.
If you really do like her more than FWB you can ask if she’s interested in going further but be prepared to lose what you have now if she doesn’t want to complicate things.
[–]ShampooMonK 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I'm just gonna enjoy the ride for now.
[–]MO_drps_knwldg 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she is interested in more than FWB, she will bring it up. If that’s what you want, you’ll harm your chances more by bringing it up to her. Ride it out. Also, you don’t need to flash it in her face, but don’t hide it if you are also talking to other girls.
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