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[–]_C4RS0N4 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
“Hey wanna (insert date idea here)?”
[–]iambabyshark 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I'm headed out to X tonight, wanna tag along?". No fear of rejection. She says no? You were doing it anyway. And it takes pressure off her because it's not a "date", just a simple hangout
[–]thementalyogi -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't.
What if you engaged her to the point of her asking YOU!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask if she wants to meet up in a public place, for a short period of time. Something where you'll be able to talk to each other and get to know each other more in person. Coffee, brunch/lunch or grab an ice cream and make the first date seem safe. Movies are the cliché thing but you need to be silent at a movie so there isn't any getting to know each other. A dinner can have the expectation of having something happen afterwards, but not always, depends on many factors. Something fancy and expensive and you insist on paying, she might assume you're expecting sex. Some casual or quirky place, there's less pressure. Every woman is different, so I can't say it'll work for everyone. I'm just basing it off of what I felt comfortable with when I was dating.
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