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[–]Opening333 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't think about girls that you have crush on, just let her image be the in back of your head, and don't try to find out more about her. That way it will make it less intimidating when you approach her. Also, try to talk to a strangers a minute before you approach her,( ideally a dude) so that's way your next interaction will be easier.
[–]solo3663 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I've recently been going through the same-ish scenario. I've waited over a month to approach the girl that I like. I too also felt like a loser. I would get too caught up in negative thoughts and it was like I was setting myself up to fail. Last week I told myself I was going to ask her out for coffee and chat. I seriously had to push myself mentally to do this. I worried so much about ruining my chances while every day I don't say a word and continue to ruin my chances. When I did it I was so surprised of the outcome! She said "YES" without hesitation and on that date I got her number!
Do it when you're ready, but also don't wait for too long. After I did it I've realized that it really wasn't a big deal. Even if I was rejected it wouldn't be a big deal because a HUGE WEIGHT have been lifted off of me for finally approaching. It's more stressful not saying anything and living with that decision. Get out of your own way, think positive, and just do it. You got this!
[–]LesWhite 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Bro what. What IOIs are you receiving?
[–]imjustdumbaf 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This guy asking the right question
[–]Intelligent_Yoloer 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He probably meant eye to eye
[–]FlawlessLikeMeh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She is always staring at me and following me in my vicinty
[–]One-Hedgehog4722 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Similar to how you force yourself to burp
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