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LesWhite/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:02 AM
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Not everything can be answered online my guy. Part of the journey is just living in the moment and enjoying it, so go do that
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:31 AM
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First date. After second drink
/r/seduction24/08/22 09:44 PM
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Obviously if she were into you she'd give out her number. Sorry bud
/r/seduction08/07/22 08:59 PM
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I would not attempt to cold approach a girl that's on her phone. That's weird.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:58 PM
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Wrong. He lied. Deleted his entire post after I posted my other comment.
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:40 PM
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Did you kiss her at all? If not, then you just didn't make a move. Oh well, make a move next time. In the meantime, delete all the contact info from that girl.
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:08 PM
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The key to getting women is to realize you're not going to get every woman, only the ones that like you
/r/seduction03/05/22 04:15 AM
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No. No normal guy does this
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:34 PM
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It amazes me that people will see a post written by an account made hours ago and just take it as gospel
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:59 PM
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PUA bootcamps are a scam. You've been scammed. You can learn everything you need to to be good with women for free. Pickup artists are there to sell a product, they're not there to help you (although they want you to believe they are).
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:53 AM
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Just copy this, works every time: "Hey, would you maybe like to grab an ice cream with me sometime? 🥺👉👈"
/r/seduction30/03/22 10:42 PM
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Immediately a no. Don't try. If she reaches out cool but don't talk to her anymore. This isn't a green flag
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:34 AM
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Step 1: Don't call them females
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:16 PM
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Simple. Don't
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:28 PM
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I wouldn't have texted after she stopped by, even 6 hours later. Let her do some of the chasing. If not, she'll lose all interest
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:35 PM
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Girls who are interested will make an effort, girls who aren't won't. Simple
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:52 PM
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Yeah, no thanks
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:45 PM
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How the fuck are we supposed to know. Just move on
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:47 AM
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So you're getting laid with your voice but you have a girlfriend you've been dating for 9 months?
/r/seduction20/02/22 12:43 AM
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I don't kiss a stranger right when I meet them. That's weird. Don't tell this guy to do that when it will surely fuck up the date from the get-go.
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:39 PM
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The secret guys won't tell you: slap his cock around really fast and violently
/r/seduction19/02/22 03:01 AM
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In the time it took you to reply, /u/romanh101 and I already ate out each other's asses. It's literally freshman year level bullshit
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:52 AM
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Say "Ooga booga wooga wooga" before giving him head. Go really fast. Use your teeth. Make him feel insecure as well
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:24 AM
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What the fuck. I wouldn't fuck with someone that has no respect for boundaries. Like, either break up with him and maybe we can do something but I've already seen the whole deck at that point and probably wouldn't be about it
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:31 AM
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Read*
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:53 PM
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28 years
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:14 PM
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Fuck a human, not a doll
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:04 AM
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After getting drinks, walk somewhere. Take her hand. Continue walking and talking. Wander somewhere not super busy. Stop. She'll turn around. Pull her in. Kiss. That's what I'd do.
/r/seduction16/02/22 01:14 AM
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You probably are going to hahaha
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:13 PM
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Sorry, no gold for at least 10 replies
/r/seduction09/02/22 11:28 PM
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Same thing happened to me a month ago. It is what it is. You just move on. People are people and if it didn't click, it didn't click. Simple as that
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:27 PM
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Yes, in the same way you wouldn't want to fuck someone that was extremely ugly
/r/seduction06/02/22 09:10 PM
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If it feels unnatural to approach, don't lol. So many guys don't get this, but I guess it's actively encouraged in this sub
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:32 PM
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What? You're going to fuck up, and that's okay. Trying to be "perfect" when it comes to dating is a form of neediness. Make mistakes, get rejected/turned down, and move on.
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:44 PM
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What? You're going to fuck up, and that's okay. Trying to be "perfect" when it comes to dating is a form of neediness. Make mistakes, get rejected/turned down, and move on.
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:44 PM
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Literally not giving a fuck. Literally not caring. You went out with a girl 4 times, made out, and she ghosted you? Oh well. You went home with a girl after the first date and fucked? Cool. Neediness is acting in a way to get a certain result. You do x, y, or z so that a, b, or c will happen. Neediness is trying to play it safe - it's not being honest with who you really are or going after what you really want. You're afraid of coming off in a certain way so you act differently. Non-neediness is…
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:45 PM
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Just make the date on Tinder...
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:15 PM
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Yes. My greatest to date was "I lika da booba"
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:45 PM
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At a bar or a club? No but I've met women and gone home with them from both clubs and bars plenty of times.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:30 PM
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Dating apps, by far
/r/seduction12/01/22 02:55 PM
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Yes, yes, and yes. Two spritzes max (at least for me personally) and instant upgrade
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:12 PM
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Best: bars, breweries, somewhere you can talk and get to know each other Worst: funeral, strip club, somewhere your ex frequents
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:19 AM
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Hi Bambi, I like men
/r/seduction16/12/21 08:35 PM
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Cheers OP
/r/seduction15/12/21 09:19 PM
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My friend was actually talking to her. He went to get a drink at the bar with a friend another. I started making small talk. Near the end of the night I asked if she wanted to keep hanging out. She said yes. We went back to her place
/r/seduction14/12/21 09:50 PM
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Dude chill out. Something you need to realize is that even if a girl matches with you and responds to you, it's perfectly okay for them to not carry the conversation any further. It just is what it is. Sure you might feel like they're trying to spite you or they're doing it to be rude, but that's often not the case. Stop being so outcome dependent. The girls who are interested will always respond and will be open towards your advances. The ones who don't, won't. Learn to let go of the ones that …
/r/seduction06/12/21 07:05 PM
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First time I ever checked the sub, holy shit the amount of misandry
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:29 PM
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The first best time to start doing something was 20 years ago. The second next time is now. That rings true for everything OP. Let me know if there's anything I can help with. Most of my dates are done by meeting through apps and downtown bars, that's just what I have the most experience with
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:53 PM
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"Without getting me too'd" This has never happened to me, so I agree with the other guy saying you're starting from a place of fear. Quit thinking every girl will "me too" you if you're direct or express your sexual interest
/r/seduction12/11/21 08:17 PM
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I'd say download a dating app or two and try them out. Pics matter more than content/bios. Also look into social activities near you / your closest city. I had a thing with a girl I met through a hiking group, but I don't hike anymore. Don't join an activity/group to try and meet women. Actually be interested in what you're apart of. I used to like hiking, now I don't, so I'm not apart of that groups anymore etc. Once you get past all the facade bullshit of "pickup" and special techniques, seduc…
/r/seduction07/11/21 03:19 PM
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This is my personal opinion: PUA and PUA bootcamps/courses are a scam. Their goal is to make money, simple as that. Free videos, articles, and just going out will make you far better than any paid course or bootcamp will
/r/seduction07/11/21 02:55 PM
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Bro what. What IOIs are you receiving?
/r/seduction01/11/21 09:31 PM
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I've gotten laid and had relationships from both approaching in person and from dating apps. It's not black and white.
/r/seduction29/10/21 10:40 PM
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I think there's so many subtleties it's hard to pinpoint just one thing. All hugs are different depending on the social context, but the overarching difference I would say is confidence in your sexuality and expressing that to those you're interested in. Just imagine a guy who's really comfortable with himself and isn't afraid to go after what he wants, and another that's really shy and is afraid of coming on too strong out of fear of being rejected. If you relate it to kissing, think of a peck …
/r/seduction29/10/21 12:24 PM
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doesn't respond for 4 hours "She hates you and doesn't respect your existence"
/r/seduction29/10/21 09:41 AM
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See my comment above
/r/seduction29/10/21 09:36 AM
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I usually ask a girl out on a date. When I first see them, I give them a big hug. Girls have told me that they knew what my intentions were based on that first hug (it wasn't a "friend" hug, you could say). I've also hooked up with girls that I didn't hug or hold hands with. I guess my point is that there's no set rule you have to follow, but you have to escalate with what you're comfortable with and making sure the girl's on the same level
/r/seduction29/10/21 09:36 AM
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Just know that you don't need to hold the girl's hand. Like, it's not a complete necessity for things to go well. Other escalation is more important, but your goal should be to make her laugh/smile and just be all around comfortable
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:47 AM
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I'd like to add, height doesn't matter as much as this sub or others would lead you to believe. One of my friends is 5'5 and goes home with the most girls because he's a funny 'life of the party" type, and that shit is attractive
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:50 PM
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We have different definitions on what hooking up is
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:46 PM
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Different women value different things, simple as that
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:35 PM
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The whole height argument is bullshit. If you're short and don't get laid you're just bad at game, simple as that
/r/seduction08/10/21 07:49 AM
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No offense but if you don't know where to meet women you probably don't have a ton of game yet. The answer to your question is everywhere, except the places they don't want you to meet them at.
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:09 PM
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This is horrible advice. It's 2021 and people like to go dutch. It doesn't mean she's not attracted, it just means she wants to pay for her drinks, simple as that
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:38 PM
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Proceeds to have existential crisis
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:47 AM
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"I'm me" ​ It's not that hard
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:06 AM
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I am scared of coming off as cringe. Ngl it's pretty cringe
/r/seduction27/07/21 03:27 PM
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"Trying to touch someone in a non-sexual way works" Yeah no fucking shit, you don't just start banging the girl immediately. Escalation is a thing
/r/seduction07/07/19 06:48 PM
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Incel fantasies at it again
/r/seduction03/07/19 09:37 PM
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I'll be honest, kinda happy to not see RSD Todd in this post. I think he has lots of good material. That being said, when I first started getting into all this being a socially inept kid, RSD did help me get over an initial hump of being someone that didn't talk to girls or escalate at all. Shitty to see all this "rapey" stuff, but I do know from firsthand experience that some of the material is useful and not nefarious.
/r/seduction02/07/19 10:00 PM
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The implication 😏
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:18 AM
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Yeah man, works great. Go open 10 sets like this and let us know how it goes. If we don't hear back from you in a week we'll just assume you got your ass beaten or are in jail
/r/seduction27/05/19 04:38 AM
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Bruh seriously. Like just because a girl looked you in the eye and touched her hair does not mean she's interested lol. Don't celebrate like you made any progress when you didn't do shit.
/r/seduction27/05/19 01:18 AM
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NSFW? Am I missing something?
/r/seduction23/05/19 10:44 PM
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Tbf a lot of people I know have construed definitions of "hooked up." For some it means a makeout, for others it means everything but sex, and for others it means all the way. Just clarifying
/r/seduction23/05/19 03:40 AM
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😉
/r/seduction23/05/19 02:30 AM
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I agree with you. I think it's a good idea to let them go, and let that be it. Until you get to a point where you consistently have new girls coming into your life, it's easy to place women on a pedestal. I don't think it's bad to necessarily hope that a girl will reach out to you (we all want that at some point), I just think that the best case scenario is to leave the girl alone and see where it goes. Maybe she reaches out, maybe she doesn't. Of course, if that's the only girl in your life, an…
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:48 PM
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Which are perfectly good goals. I just meant, after you guys hooked up, did you want to pursue something longer term with her? I'd imagine so. You mention being left on read since Monday - that's not a long time at all my man. I've had girls ghost me for weeks and then they came back. Just be patient and see what happens, not only with this one chick but the ones in the future as well
/r/seduction22/05/19 06:43 PM
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So what's your goal here? You want to date her long term? You've had sex with her. Was that a while ago? Have you just been friendly to her since and she ghosted you?
/r/seduction22/05/19 06:01 PM
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Hooked up with as in had sex with?
/r/seduction22/05/19 05:43 PM
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OP how long have you been left on read for? Have you hooked up with her?
/r/seduction22/05/19 05:24 PM
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What you said initially was too direct. You don't want to go straight to "being lovers" - this chick barely knows you. You've got to seduce her before saying something like that. Get her out on a date.
/r/seduction22/05/19 04:41 AM
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Dude, this might be the worst thing you can do? Where did you learn game?
/r/seduction22/05/19 04:14 AM
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TBH CCW's analogy is pretty great. Women come and go on their own, like cats. Just let them be. It's really helped me not be pushy or get freaked out when a girl doesn't text back or whatever. They'll do whatever they want on their own dime. If they want to come back to you they will
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:14 PM
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OP this is cringe af
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:28 AM
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That's what we did the first time we went out, and it worked, and that's what I'm doing with another girl next week. Definitely wasn't my intention to "trap" her at my place so-to-speak (drinking and not driving), it's just that parking is a nightmare downtown so I thought I'd give her a parking spot at my place lol
/r/seduction02/05/19 08:49 PM
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Yeah, I got that. I'm not stressing that much. We've already been on one date and made out so there's that. She also said that she's looking for a LTR, which I'm not. Plus, the other girl got back to me from my original post, and we're meeting at a bar next week haha
/r/seduction02/05/19 08:32 PM
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Yeah I realized that too late, but learned from it. She was driving from 30 minutes away to meet me. I live about a 15 minute walk from the bars near my area, so I just said "Meet me at my place so you can park and then I can call a Lyft to the bars"
/r/seduction02/05/19 08:27 PM
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She hit me up out of the blue yesterday and asked if we were still on for tonight, so I know she was at least interested. Then she asked where to meet up and I replied with 'my place.' Then she cancelled
/r/seduction02/05/19 05:27 PM
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I know that, I really do. It just sucks to realize that a single text might have been the reason a girl I was going to see tonight is why she flaked
/r/seduction02/05/19 03:21 PM
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If only I could have seen this video yesterday haha. Had one girl hit me up yesterday asking if we were still on for tonight, and then she flaked. Had another girl just not reply at all (too long of a text). Damn
/r/seduction02/05/19 12:46 PM
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Bro, first off, why are you going to the movies on a first date? Secondly, yeah I pay, but I only pay for 2 drinks, since I typically ask them "Let's grab a drink." Every single time I've got out with a girl like this, the girl has bought the second round. Not saying that will last forever, but just go into the date knowing that you'll buy each of you one drink. If that's it, that's it. If she offers to buy another round, awesome. If you guys hit it off and go somewhere else, drop another $X dol…
/r/seduction25/04/19 01:55 AM
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OP, trust me, this is something that can change. What's the furthest you've ever made it with a girl?
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:03 AM
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Many of you guys are incels. ​ What the fuck are you talking about? You probably know nothing about seduction.
/r/seduction17/04/19 07:05 PM
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What do you mean? If your name is Blaze Kid, surely you know how to game
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:40 AM
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Don't wait to travel to Budapest to start. Start now. Go to bars and night clubs before you go. If you wait till Budapest, then you're just hyping the situation up, which can be daunting if you're a beginner. Go out now, so by the time you are in Budapest, you'll already have some basic skills, which will make you more confident.
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:04 AM
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Bro, no offense but it seems like you've put this girl on a pedestal. This shit shouldn't bother you, or piss you off this much because you should be seeing lots of different girls. I know it's obviously hard in the beginning, but you're showing a scarcity mindset. Imagine if you were also talking to a couple of hot girls while this shit was happening. It wouldn't phase you, and you'd move on with no issue.
/r/seduction14/04/19 05:11 PM
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I did this a couple weeks ago. Set a date for a week later and that was it. The day before the date I texted her something along the lines of "Hey -----, hope your day's going well. We're still on for drinks tomorrow?" This wasn't something I thought I'd do, but I had a girl flake on me right before another date, so I thought it'd be a good idea to confirm that we we're both still on. If she's interested in you and really wants to see you, she'll enthusiastically reply "Yes!" If there's an excus…
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:58 PM
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So, how'd it go?
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:44 PM
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Imagine I replied to your original comment
/r/seduction12/04/19 12:23 AM
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To each his own I guess. Not too long ago I had a girl come up to me and tell me her friend thinks I was hot, so I asked where she was and told her come talk to me. I don't think it's all about looks, as some girls just straight up use Tinder/Bumble/Hinge as a tool for self-validation and nothing else.
/r/seduction12/04/19 12:12 AM
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I had Tinder and Bumble for 3 weeks. Got probably 10 matches in total, which resulted in 1 lay. Then I deleted them. So much less exciting than game out at a bar/night club, and like what /u/NeoGenus59 says, they make men the product. Fuck that. They basically force guys to put women on a pedestal and be needy as shit (if I saw a Venmo in a girls bio, that was an immediate swipe left because fuck that shit). Honestly, once you get better at game and start practicing more and more, you realize th…
/r/seduction11/04/19 04:10 AM
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Dude, she literally asked you if you had time later in the week, so she's clearly more interested in you as she didn't ghost you completely. I'd tell her a day that works for you and see what she says. If she flakes on you a third time, just tell her "No worries, perhaps another time" and... move the fuck on.
/r/seduction10/04/19 04:12 PM
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Don't find them interesting in what way?
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:57 AM
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That's fucking brilliant
/r/seduction22/03/19 06:47 PM
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Exactly. The girls that want to see you WILL see you, or at least make plans to see you if they're busy. It sucks, but if a girl ignores you / leaves you on read / flakes out on a date, then it means that you aren't important to her in the given moment. However, this doesn't mean that you have to throw in the towel the first time she appears disinterested. If she really likes you, she will get back to you.
/r/seduction22/03/19 02:02 AM
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OP, if you want a real answer, listen to /u/WokeKemosabe and buy "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. I own the book and owe a huge amount of my success to it. Seriously, buy it.
/r/seduction22/03/19 01:53 AM
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Yeah, you didn't fuck up OP. I've been on a few dates and let me tell you something... nothing is more fun and exciting than going out with a girl that WANTS to go out with you. Other guys know this as well. When a girl WANTS to see you and go out with you, it's one of the best experiences because she's invested in you to the point where she's excited about seeing you. One of the hardest pills to swallow with seduction, in my opinion, is that if a girl wants to see / talk to you, she's going to.…
/r/seduction22/03/19 01:06 AM
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Lmao soft as in little to no teeth, at least in my opinion. Probably should have said smirk.
/r/seduction19/03/19 11:28 PM
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I'm 22 and about to graduate. What kind of social events do you go to? Do you go to parties? Do you have a lot of friends you hang out with?
/r/seduction19/03/19 10:45 PM
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College?
/r/seduction19/03/19 09:31 PM
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Just curious but how old are you? I'm trying to see if I can give you any tips
/r/seduction19/03/19 09:24 PM
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I assume that what OP means when he says "I had an IOI" was "she gave me an IOI." An example of an IOI would be her holding eye contact and giving you a soft smile.
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:11 PM
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Lmao. Sex is another great IOI
/r/seduction19/03/19 06:31 PM
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Indicator of interest. For example, if she's sucking your dick, then that's an IOI
/r/seduction19/03/19 06:18 PM
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Okay. So for me, what I'm hearing, is that you are having a difficult time escalating with a girl, which is completely normal -- don't worry. In fact, there are tons of reasons why a guy would have trouble escalating, ranging from having never done it before, to anxiety, to lack of confidence etc. Let me give you a little background on myself. I got out of a LTR of close to 2 years just a couple months ago. In that time, I've had sex with 2 new girls, and made out with two others (absolute babes…
/r/seduction14/03/19 06:35 PM
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Are you a virgin? Have you ever kissed a girl? When was the last time you were on a date? You gotta give us more if you want us yo help you
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:54 AM
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We'll see man haha I'll wait and see if she reaches out, but for now, time to focus on other girls :)
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:55 PM
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Update
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:56 AM
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Update
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:56 AM
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Update
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:56 AM
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Shit show update: I asked her out, she said Thursday worked. I told her I'd pick her up at 8. Her response to that was a paragraph about how my good friend, who was with us the night I made out with her, had been her best friend for the past 2 years and apparently asked her on a date. She said she wasn't sure we should do anything in private, to which I just replied: Hey, if you change your mind, you know how to contact me
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:56 AM
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Yeah maybe, I'll let you know how it goes.
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:53 PM
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I'm not doubting the validity of it. My friends, as well as her friends, have all told me the same thing. I guess it was pretty bad - don't think she's lying
/r/seduction11/02/19 04:23 PM
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I was thinking about asking her out today. Figured a day or two would be a good waiting period.
/r/seduction11/02/19 04:15 PM
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To "master" seduction you have to master yourself first, which is a life-long process
/r/seduction11/02/19 08:16 AM
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I thought the same thing, and I was pretty drunk, so I most likely looked too deep into it
/r/seduction11/02/19 07:53 AM
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That's what I'm trying to tell myself. Fell out of learning game for 2 years since I was in a relationship. Need to get back to the basics haha
/r/seduction23/01/19 04:50 PM
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Got ghosted. Or the message was delivered on Facebook, but not opened, so I'm assuming ghosted.
/r/seduction23/01/19 03:34 AM
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Going out with friends is huge. It gives you something to focus on, rather than, "Oh hey, there's a cute girl, how do I approach her?" and sets up for a better night overall in my opinion.
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:16 PM
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Let me ask you: when you go out, do you go out alone, or with friends?
/r/seduction18/01/19 05:11 PM
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Personally speaking, I think where you are going wrong is looking for the "right" thing to say. To be honest, I don't think there is some magical sentence you can reiterate to every single girl, and have it work 100% of the time. In my experience, all of my best dates/hookups/f-closes have been from simply talking, having a good time, and then getting their number at the end of the night. I text them a day or two later and go from there. You're putting too much pressure on yourself. Go out there…
/r/seduction18/01/19 12:22 AM
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I feel like it really boils down to a few things: 1) Take care of yourself 2) Be honest and direct, 3) Don't be afraid to make mistakes. I'm sure there are more, but all this extra bullshit is just marketing imo - just to get people to subscribe/watch/consume, and have other people profit.
/r/seduction18/01/19 12:15 AM
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Thanks, I like the analogy of the cake and cherry. I'll focus on getting the cake going tomorrow, and we'll see where it goes.
/r/seduction22/02/17 03:55 PM
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Yeah, "warming up" seemed like a bad idea when my friends were telling me about it. I'll wait, and see if anything happens by Monday. What would you recommend I text her on Monday if she doesn't reply? I was thinking: "Hey, are you free to get together this week?"
/r/seduction09/02/17 02:37 PM
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I know the definition varies from person-to-person, but the way I see it (along with all my friends) is that "hooking up" = making out, fingering, grabbing, sucking, oral, or anything else that's not penetration. I fingered her and grabbed / sucked on her tits. My apologies for not being clear.
/r/seduction23/10/16 10:02 PM
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Really appreciate your response, thanks! I realized I went a little too fast, and am more than willing to slow it down and try with other girls. I was thinking about talking to her on Monday or Wednesday (since we do have a class together), and just being straight / asking her out sometime in the near future. That way, there's no more dicking around on my end, and I can see if she's interested or not. I'm also going out tonight, so you know it's gonna be a fun time ;)
/r/seduction24/09/16 12:49 AM
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Should've listened to your advice. I'm 99% sure she has little to no interest in me anymore. She hasn't replied to my text from Wednesday, and I talked to her today casually and got short responses. Fuck. I hate being out of the game for a while and getting incredible attached to someone only over the course of a week, like holy shit, how pathetic am I.
/r/seduction23/09/16 09:01 PM
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She replied to my text with "I knew you would be" Why would I not text her back until tomorrow?
/r/seduction17/09/16 04:07 PM
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So every woman that doesn't make eye contact is subtly pointing out that she doesn't want to be approached?
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:09 PM
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the usual avoiding eye contact is a screening mechanism Just curious, but what do you mean by that?
/r/seduction02/09/16 03:22 AM
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Thanks for replying. I agree, I missed an opportunity and have now learned my lesson. Next time, hopefully, I won't think twice about the situation and get choked up. Your suggestion on having the girl sit with me would be the best one in my opinion. I'm like 90% sure she comes to class late, and has to find a seat somewhere off an aisle. However, we both go out an exit at the front of the class rather the back, since it's too crowded. So maybe if I see her leaving / hold the door open again, I …
/r/askTRP29/08/16 04:51 AM
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Ideally for me. I don't see why it would matter all that much if she were in her sweatpants on or not. Maybe it's just me wanting to face my insecurities of actually asking a girl out face-to-face. Leaving a note, in my personal opinion, would be too easy, and all this anxiety I'm feeling would have been for nothing.
/r/seduction26/08/16 09:41 PM
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Ideally, she'd be there, and we could talk / I could get her number. If not, then hopefully her roommate would at least be there. If not, I'm not sure if I should leave a note or just not worry about it. Don't know what difference it makes, but today is her birthday.
/r/seduction25/08/16 08:33 PM
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Thanks for the reply and encouragement Evan. If she says yes, and I get her number right then and there, should I try and stick around, or leave to get back to my friends?
/r/seduction25/08/16 02:57 PM
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