Explain this.

Lucazzz14 · 2022-02-20T19:37:44+00:00

Don't act entitled, they aren't interested. Leave them alone, you've asked them out multiple times. Would you act this way if you were interested in someone?

I wouldn't message them either, move on. If they somewhat message you, have a few exchanges and then ask them out. If they say no, say you have to go and hope to hear from them soon. Invest minimal time in them. Don't have expectations of them.

LesWhite · 2022-02-20T19:52:22+00:00

Girls who are interested will make an effort, girls who aren't won't. Simple

wdbreneprod · 2022-02-20T20:23:45+00:00

I mean your goal hangin' out with them is good , texting is boring and you won't get to know to person for real until you meet her.

First of all , Girls nowadays on social media or dating apps will act like that all the time. I recently stumbled upon a girl on Tinder and she was intersting. After two days of texting and lil' bit of flirting she gave me signs that she wants to meet me. I had a chance to have a trip to a town where she lives and I got pretty excited that I could meet her and see if it's worth it to spend time with her.

Note: She said she wants to meet me for real.

So I took the chance and told her that Im on my way and she thought that I was joking at first. When I got to the town , I texted her that Im gonna be picking her up after school , so we can get to know each other better. Just a normal date.

And then those lies. She started saying funny excuses like "Well uh you really don't want to meet my friends, they are nerds haha" I replied : "I don't want to meet your friend I want to meet you duh." Then she started blabaring shit and making excuses so I stopped at nearest gas station to get some coffee .

Moral of this story is that Girls that you meet on the Internet will always be like that. They won't get through that breaking point because on Internet they have certain persona they can hide behind. But in real life they know they won't be "So Pretty" , "So Aesthetic" , "So Stylish" or They won't be able to play the texting game with u and would have to actually talk to you.

Another point is that if you keep checking on them if they "changed their mind" you already lost. Girls have this polar effect where when you first hook them and then don't give a fuck about them, then they will chase you.

Last but not least get off of these things and go outside to look for girls. I mean it's pretty self explanatory but look at old people. How they managed their relationships for so long? Some old people are married for more then 50 years. That's because they met each other naturally. They didn't have the chance to text themselves about how their day was. They had to wait for the time they meet again. And that's the greatest thing about meeting a new person , you can't judge her by her Instagram page , her stories or her Bio or Highlights.

I recently started taking walks around my neighborhood , not to hunt for a girl but to actually take a walk if I have a certain feeling of uneasiness and stress. By that I constantly see people I never met before or knew they were living here. And what's stopping me to say Hi and get to know the person? Nothing.

Best relationships will come from the most unexpected moments. Let that sink in.

dobbs1997 · 2022-02-20T20:57:06+00:00

First of all you don’t have to go back & forth with chicks on text, you can just straight away set up a date. Second, if you feel a girl is lying about her reason to not meet up with you then STOP talking to her and move on..bruh don’t waste your time on these girls who aren’t reciprocating the energy, move onto another one and this time stop texting them so much & if after the first time you tell them to meet you & they say they can’t, then tell her to message you when she’s free and that’s it you stop talking to her.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-02-20T19:40:29+00:00

Explain? - SNAPCHAT

Iow - beta orbiters dancing around attention hoes

thereallilspec · 2022-02-20T21:02:35+00:00

Not trying to sound mean. But you sound dessprit in my opinion of your explanation. You need to let things come and be OK with letting them go. Let me ask you this why would you ever wanna be with some one that duse not care about you. Just do you and best of luck

Important-Quote9544 · 2022-02-20T21:46:41+00:00

They don’t “act” uninterested. They are uninterested.

2022-02-21T11:45:19+00:00

You doin too much bro go out and meet someone , rejections aren’t a big thing if you don’t make one

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-02-21T15:08:04+00:00

It’s very simple to understand.

They don’t really connect with you, and also they are not sexually attracted to you, and to top it off you are needy if you keep asking them out in case they change their mind or forget about you.

Probably, you need to fix your appearance, and also improve your social skills.

quadfintryfin · 2022-02-22T02:33:52+00:00

Girls dodging your attempts to get their number/hang out are not interested in you. Move on and leave them alone

Title	Explain this.
Author	Zealousideal_Boot256
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	February 20, 2022 7:32 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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