We set a concrete date and time. A couple days before, she asked to postpone. We postponed and set another concrete place, date, and time. She never showed up. I sent her a msg saying that was not cool. She responded apologizing saying she had overslept. I ignored her.

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I don't feel bad. I feel good. This was inevitable given where I live (bay area -- tons of dudes, women have all the options and are thus incentivized to flake). I feel like this was just a matter of time and now that I've been through it, it's like a rite of passage. I'm even more motivated to keep chugging along, failing, falling flat on my face and being humiliated until I accomplish my goal. I only need to succeed once.