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[–]madzmm 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
i mean from the sound of it you guys don’t know each other THAT well and asking her something like going back to your house might have shocked her a little. it might imply that you just want to get in bed with her/she might feel it’s too intimate for her to be going to your house etc.
[–]Method_Rude 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m curious why you say we don’t know each other that well?
[–]5_7pickup 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Maybe youre friend zoned. Maybe she does have shit to do that day. Who knows. Just try again.
This sub gets so many of these "Is ShE iNtErEsTeD iN mE?" questions. This is the problem with alot of guys these days. You guys aren't asking the right questions. Questions like this is such.... a waste of time.
Like why are you even in this predicament? You can avoid having to ask these questions if you just establish the premise that you and the girl are a man to woman relationship and not a platonic one.
For example if you asked her on a DATE and she said no, then you would get your answer right? A date can't be misconstrued as platonic.
[–]Method_Rude 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Me and this girl used to date. I think asking her to come back to my house was pretty straight foward right
[–]5_7pickup 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Try again and make sure there’s no confusion. She might have had plans that day already.
She said she was going to a concert cause this other guy invited her and bought her ticket, which I totally believe is true
[–]5_7pickup 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok then shes busy. Schedule another date.
[–]PatientAssociation62 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Come over to my place" = "I want to fuck you". You decide whether or not it's appropriate and what you want to communicate.
[–]gbizzle2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Im assuming you never smashed
[–]Method_Rude 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Wdym? I’ve had two girlfriends and had sex with 4 women
[–]gbizzle2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Im talking about this girl
I dated her for three months last year, and yes we had sex multiple times
[–]gbizzle2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like she lost interest
That’s what I thought at first too. Idk maybe she has. When I saw her the first time on campus she was kinda rude. I think she was still mad about us breaking up, but then she was the one asking to go to lunch and stuff. So we’ve had lunch a few times, and I do believe her that she has stuff to do tonight. I have no doubts at all she wasn’t telling the truth
[–]gbizzle2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you care a little too much
[–]truthbomb999 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
and was going to a concert later with this guy so needed to get home
She definitely friend zoned you. Cut bait and move on.
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[–]Method_Rude 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wanted to fuck, I thought I made it clear imo though. She said she was busy tonight, which I believe. I still don’t want to ask again
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