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swampygaki · 2021-09-28T01:17:38+00:00

Hmm are you asking them if they would like to dance or are you just dancing next to them?

MO_drps_knwldg · 2021-09-28T04:26:12+00:00

You are probably putting out an insecure vibe since you’re so rusty. Women can sense this kind of weakness, and some will act extremely bitchy like the woman you mentioned.

If someone is willing to be that rude to a stranger who is essentially minding their own business, they probably have some inner turmoil or other issue going on, and are generally unhappy. You shouldn’t concern yourself with the opinions of miserable people.

Have more of a sense of humor about things, just go out to have fun, without asking validation from women. If you can have fun doing your own thing, it will put out a fun, confident vibe. You were probably emoting neediness when you went out and got the negative feedback. You have to find your balls a little too. Crying? That would have made a funny story for my friends the next day.

Some women will smile at me in public when I make eye contact with them, others will side-eye or give bitch face. You can’t please everyone, man.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-09-28T05:23:47+00:00

Hahahahaha you let some bitch intimidate you? How are you supposed to be a man and stand up to other dudes if you let some girl make fun of you and tell you to go away? Learn to handle yourself better man.

KingAJ032304 · 2021-09-28T05:44:46+00:00

she was like don't take it personally its just a defense mechanism

this girl walks up to me and says "please fuck off we don't like you"

her friend suddenly comes to us and says "fuck off leave her alone we don't like you"

"defense"

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-09-28T12:21:51+00:00

50 tinder fcloses in the past year? Well done my man, would love to hear your strategy. I'm at around 35 so definitely not struggling, but always trying to improve.

As for nightgame, it's a whole different beast, especially if you're rusty and only used to OLD. The key is to be social, talk to people outside the club, find a group of people that like you, talk to everyone. Being on vacation, it shouldn't be a problem to make friends (just tell them you're from out of town & just visiting).

Once girls see that social proof, they won't be as guarded when you approach them. And if you get rejected, just shrug it off and look at it as them missing out on you, not you missing out on them. Don't focus too much on the gaming aspect, focus more on enjoying yourself and eventually one of the girls you talk to will be vibing with you.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-09-28T14:09:18+00:00

What ctiy are you in where girls are saying this to you?

And I would have just laughed at the girls and said, is that your pickup line? Because it's not working..

Turned around or pretend like she's not even there..

Go back to what I was doing and NOT moved an inch.

LordFrogberry · 2021-10-04T19:58:31+00:00

Wow. If this thread is exemplary of the whole subreddit, you are all creepy motherfuckers who need to stop browsing incel content.

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