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[–]Brandonva804 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
The mistakes many men make to this day is trying to kiss and me physical on the first date. You would be pulling your hair out if I told you I’ve laid countless women without doing anything you described needing to do like kissing and touching on the first date. You can do all of that when you get back to her place or yours.
Takes the pressure off you and her while in a public place. Just chat and have fun for two hours and if she’s chatting back with you and it’s been a while just ask her back to your place. There you must escalate and you’ll definitely lay her about 70-80% of the time
[–]obamainmypajama 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I agree one hunna. But this is where it gets tricky; like i said if I had a place where I'm living rn, i would've done it easy peasy. Challenge being, how do you work with what you have? A car and a half full parking lot or a dark street with a maximum 2-3 mins before someone pops up and it gets awkward.
[–]Brandonva804 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can’t you go to her place
[–]obamainmypajama 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She lives in an all girl's dorm 🤷🏽♂️
[–]Brandonva804 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And? If she got her own room go there turn the music up or TV and go to town
[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just go for it. I fucked girls in the back of a tintless Saturn suv in the middle of a neighbor during the day.
At night or in a parking garage is even easier
[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I mean you know what you have to do.. just do it lol
Tbh I kiss every girl on the first date, if she is hot.
Here’s a few first date experiences of mine recently:
Scenario 1:
First date at a rooftop bar. About an hour in I walk my date to see the views. She stops and says she loves how the city lights look. I hold her from behind as we both look outside. When she turns around I lift her chin up (I’m also 6’2 btw) and kiss her once. She’s glowing and we keep walking
Boom easy!
Scenario 2:
I’m at another rooftop bar for a first date. (Rooftop bars are my go-to lol) I have great night with her. We get close and the tension builds. Then we go downstairs and get in the elevator together. It’s only us two. We’re both standing on opposite sides of the elevator staring at each other. So I walk over, push her back against the wall and we make out until the elevator stops.
Scenario 3:
First date meets me at a restaurant. We have a margarita. No food. Casually talk. Then I take her over to a sunset gondola ride across the street. The gondola guy tells my date to look at one of the houses on the water. When she looks away he hands me a rose. When she turned back around I said hey I got this for you. She smiled and I kissed her.
Scenario 4:
My brother is getting married so I ask this girl to meet up with me at a place to cut your own flowers so I can gift them to my Bros fiancé as a pre wedding gift. She meets me there and we get a little physical and joke around. Then we take the date to a Mexican restaurant on the beach. Again we flirt a lot but not really the spot to make a move. So we head back to my truck and when she gets in I start it up and look for some music to play. Then I look over and she’s looking at me so I go straight in for a kiss.
Easy as that! Don’t over think it bro. Just do it. And please never ever ask. You’ll know when the vibe is right and that’s when you do it
[–]obamainmypajama 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen and amen. Yes you're right, I knew when the time was right, just that it wasn't the spot to make a move. Will get it deffo next time.
[–]idonfuckwithyou 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How about kissing her in middle of date rather than at last let her know date is still on after kiss and do the lovey dovey things couple do afterwards. Kiss at middle of date works . Iheard. Btw cheers to you buddy for taking steps and moving forward
[–]Shadow__Account 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dont wait for the moment, create the moment. For example when you are standing and you are already comfortable with touching you can just stick out your hand for her to give her hand and than you pull her into you playfully.
[–]obamainmypajama 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Appreciates it
[–]bodi4eg5 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mate, you have to understand where you are. Seduction starts from A1 phase and end at the S3 phase. A (1-3) is attraction, C (1-3) is comfort and S (1-3) is seduction. Kiss is appropriate at the C2. I advise to read or reread the mystery method and revelation! You have to understand when you have to do something and why. Women are like robots. You just have to push right buttons.
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