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[–]beatituplikeag 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Keep talking to girl until you get results
[–]Hopeful_Musician_806 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, trying to do that
[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Next time you’re dating someone wait to get to know them then ask them what they are looking for. They will tell you either hookups, a relationship, or idk. Then you respond with a similar answer and decide if you want what they are looking for. You make the decision to continue dating or move on to the next one.
You’re young bro. Keep focusing on your self improvement above everything. You don’t need a woman and you don’t want them to sense that you are being needy. It sounds like you’re getting girls so keep building on the confidence from those relationships. Don’t let these girls get you down because they aren’t looking for anything serious and you are. You can’t convince someone to change their mind about what they want. But what you can do is be patient and open minded. Date women without expectations for what might happen in the future. Don’t rush in and tell them that you are looking for something serious unless you want to scare them away.
Thanks for the long reply and the advice!
[–]mystylejay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your are far better than me at your age.
So relax.
three rules:
1-do not take rejection as a judgment on yourself.
2-Rejection hurts all the times: get used to it. The more you get rejected, the more you will change (at least at your stage).
3-The other people are looking what they want and what they are just as you do. Focus on yourself, not on the others.
Co
P.s. eager to see if you will be better than me at my age...ahahahah;-)
[–]donnybdonnyb1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Keep chipping away bro. Embrace the rejection it’s part of the game. How do you find the improv classes? Do they help with you being able to think on your feet and be witty? I’m thinking of joining
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