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[–]Lost-Strawberry-5621 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It’s something nobody should ever attempt.
[–]Level_Watercress_391 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just asking question to all
[–]Lost-Strawberry-5621 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Look, as someone who’s wife cheated and left him, my best guess is: it’s as easy as she allows it to be.
[–]Level_Watercress_391 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very good point I agree
[–]Jay-Ames 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They often chase me. Sometimes more than single women. Husband gives her everything in the world. She has everything her heart desires but still complains and start actively looking to cheat.
When a woman has lost interest in her husband it is easy for a new man to come across as a prince.
[–]Level_Watercress_391 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow that’s crazy some people always want more
[–]mwineK 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As long as she is married, that's a boundary I don't want to cross
[–]Level_Watercress_391 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep I’m married I understand just asking question
[–]rpchristian 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Personally from a lifetime of experience, it's unfortunately very easy.
Now before you dawg on me too much, I've found God later in life and will not hit on a married woman or let them hit on me.
No disrespect to women , but let's face it , most marriages end up unhappy and unfulfilling in the long run...and I put most blame on men for that.
Having said all that...yeah I felt very confident seducing married women. Not all will fool around...but a hell of a lot will if you give them plausible deniability and a safe place to do it without worry of being caught.
Once that hotel door closes....they are hungry for new cock that most men can't really fathom.
The real problem imo is monagamy...but that's another issue that deeply divides.
[–]sportsdude523 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Why do you think most marriages are happy and unfulfilling?
And why do you think the real issue is monogamy?
[–]rpchristian 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
The percentage of affairs by either partner and the divorce rate make the conclusion obvious.
I believe we are meant to pair bond, but that doesn't mean exclusively have sex only with another person.
There is plenty of room for other sexual partners within a loving committed marriage for some people.
Most people want to have sex with more than just their partner...after marriage... obviously.
Once again, the Biblical model provides wisdom on this...and the Church has sold us a bill of goods against Bible wisdom that doesn't work.
God is very pro sex.
[–]sportsdude523 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I’m not too knowledgeable on Biblical stories. Can you share some verses that you are pointing to please?
And why do you think most marriages are unfulfilling?
[–]rpchristian 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
For your last question...what is the divorce rate? How many married people have affairs? I think the facts are self evident...maybe you don't?
How many wives did King Solomon have? Abraham, David, Jacob ect?
[–]sportsdude523 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It’s immeasurably difficult to get an accurate percentage on how many people have affairs. So i take those stats with a grain of salt. As far as divorce rate, that’s much easier. But the statistic of half of marriages end in divorce is deceptive. It is percentage of marriages end up in divorce but a lot of those are divorces involving people who have been married multiple times. Ex. If John/Tina, Alex/Monica, Tom/Phoebe, Chad/Tara, get married. John and tina divorce, alex and Monica divorce: John and Monica and alex and Tina get marrieds. They all divorce. So now 67 percent of marriages result in divorce. When really only 50 percent of the people of the group have ever gotten divorced.
If like to hear, why do you think most of the blame should be on men for marriages being unsatisfying?
[–]rpchristian 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I agree...the actual number of affairs is much much higher than reported. That's what I have learned and observed from living life and unfortunately spending a large part of my life seducing married women.
As for men's role in this....it's very hard to be a man that makes a woman truly happy in a LTR....it's counter intuitive and a lot of hard work.
Most men let themselves go and change exactly what she was attracted to in the first place.
Giving a woman what she thinks she wants is a deal killer.
[–]sportsdude523 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What’s the intuition and hard work that needs to be put in to keep a woman happy?
I’m not agreeing one way or another that there’s mass cheating or little cheating. surveys and your small sample size of personal experiences (small sample size relative to the massive population out there) can’t possibly validate what the truth is.
[–]rpchristian 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No need for us to discuss further...we really are not on the same page here regarding the state of marriage and relationships. Good luck!
[–]sportsdude523 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well I value your viewpoint and discussion regardless of my disagreement of being firm in one direction or the other on if there truly is mass cheating. What’s the intuition and hard work you believe that needs to be put in to keep a woman happy?
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes a ton of times.
Every situation is different.
You win some, you lose some.
Often time it's all about perfect timing.
She wants some new dick, and you happen to be the best available option at the moment.
Your tight timing is everything
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