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[–]AUG-UAA-UAG-UGA 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“ i know she has kissed some of them in the past” your acting like a simp / doormat
[–]MrMacDoctor 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why can they hurt you? Also this post is more suited for like r/relationships or something
[–]themardyage 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why aren’t you with her? This made my stomach hurt.
[–]strikerx07 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Personally I would end the 'relationship'. She clearly doesn't respect you.
[–]ORIONFULL23 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude, you can't control what's she doing, so relax, but if for some reason you find out that she was unfaithful while in this vacation, you break it up with her. So either she behave well and stay with you or she lost you forever, either way you win.
[–]kstan4d 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
First -- why are you not there with her.
Second -- have you talked about it with her? Is it OK or not OK for her to party with guys she has a history with? If you never talked about it then how the hell do you expect her to read your mind?
Third -- you sound like a simp. If other guys are hitting on her its not their problem, its the way SHE reacts that could be a problem. You should know she's YOUR girlfriend, not theirs, so why the fuck would you care if she hangs out with other guys, she already chose you bro. If you have evidence to believe shes doing shady stuff then shes not worth it anyways
Trust her and let her enjoy her vacation and have a good time. Meanwhile, focus on your own life and improving yourself
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mate you need boundaries for yourself. If you dont like this tell her and if she says too bad then you end it
She is not yours my friend, it’s just your turn.
[–]kylefofyle[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The worst part about this is that you’re scared to lose her. No trust, no relationship. Among other things
[–]DontButterMyBread 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry to hear that, man. That can't feel good. Avoid the urge to "even the playing field" by going out and messing around with other girls. It won't make anyone better off, despite its temptation.
Some situations you have control over. Other situations, you have no control over. This is a situation you have no control over, unfortunately. Try to let go of your need to control her right now, because you can't.
However, when she gets home you can consider asking if she was faithful to you. If she was, that's great! Trust will be strengthened. If she wasn't faithful, you now have control over your decision. You can then choose whether to stay with her or not.
[–]Spiritual-Reserve440 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Id suggest breaking up cuz she totally doesnt prioritize you in any way over alcohol and party and other men
[–]ghost93TH 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
y all need stop simping wtf I just read
[–]lildudefromXdastreet -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This sub has gotten so bad. What the fuck is wrong with you OP
[–]GuaranteeOwn5108 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn, she’s probably sucking so many dicks…
[–]Ohhhwordddd 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
More interesting is why you weren’t there with her. If y’all aren’t serious or haven’t been dating long there’s chances of anything
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