Picking up women in a club!

Cliffy998 · 2021-08-06T10:49:34+00:00

Use the 3 second rule . pretty simple mindset :u think a girl is cute give Urself only 3seconds to approach her and start talking . This will eliminate further overthinking and anxiety. Talk normally like how u talk to Ur friends

CombatPunk88 · 2021-08-06T13:04:08+00:00

Go out and have a night out with the boys. Genuinely enjoy yourself and take in the atmosphere. Become someone others want be around. Dress well enough to impress yourself. Wear something that accurately portrays who you are or who you want to be. You can casually engage women if you want but it shouldn't be a priority.

Keep your eye open for choosing signals and approach the women who are sending them out. Depending on how attractive you are you might not get them too often. It's better to approach women who are interested in than trying to convince one to be interested in you. Approaching takes time and effort that would be better spent having fun.

Some women will observe how you interact with your friends and strangers, your fashion sense, grooming habits, your physical qualities, and mannerisms and then decide how attractive you are based on that. If your age meeting their standards, she might send you choosing signals.

When it comes to choosing signals, there is a margin of error. You might miss some signals and you might see signals that aren't there. You handle them all amicably and confidently. If you're right, then you need to just not fuck up the conversation. She's already interested in you which is half the work. Hold your masculine frame, and be engaged but not overly available, a bit funny but not goofy and interested but not thirsty. Also do not over stay your welcome. Just chat with her a few minutes grab her number and go back to your friends. You might be able to swing back around later that night for a one night stand if you got it like that.

You won't get instant results but it's sustainable. The better shape you're in, the better groomed and better dressed you are thbetter you'll feel about yourself. Engage with people and improve your social skills. Overall you'll become more charismatic and potentially more attractive to women. Which would increase the women who would send chosing signals.

isryjose · 2021-08-06T12:01:02+00:00

Practice makes perfect, dude. Ramp up your game by practicing, by actually approaching girls in a funny and tone-down manner. Don't take yourself so seriously.

ManagementStriking11 · 2021-08-06T12:59:11+00:00

Think of something to break the ice, then 1-2 questions to keep the convo goin. That’s all there is to it my guy

The0rangeKind · 2021-08-06T16:54:36+00:00

Being bold in a club will give you results a 1000 times better than being cautious and timid. When u decide to approach a girl put ur balls on the line go strong and bold.

Wu_Pao-chao · 2021-08-06T19:03:13+00:00

after the 3 seconds, just go over and say hey I know is totally random but i seen you across the room and i think your absolutely gorgeous i just had come and say something. simple starter script should get some god responses until you figure out your own lines .

Ohhhwordddd · 2021-08-06T15:15:20+00:00

A lot of guys in the club are douche’s so being respectful with a masculine charasmatic frame will do you good

Fueledbyketo · 2021-08-06T15:59:07+00:00

I like honesty, if you feel attracted to her let that permeate throughout you, not smitten, but interested. If you feel nervous tell her that, if you don’t normally do ‘this’ tell her that! Women smell bullshit a mile away so don’t try and state pump. Just walk up and say ‘hey, I don’t normally do this but I know I’d be kicking myself in the ass later if I didn’t come over and say hi, my name is….’ And then just relax into it and feel the vibe! Good luck bro, you got this!

Jamesdoink · 2021-08-06T22:50:44+00:00

I usually bring a forklift 🤷

True_Music48 · 2021-08-12T04:09:07+00:00

You make sexual moves then bring her to your place or to get more than 1 girl, get her number then do the same and other things like good conversation and talk about fun things or what you and her like and go around the club doing any of those things with any of the girls you want until you have as many as you want. You have to be hot to make this work -~

Title	Picking up women in a club!
Author	AlucardVTep3s
Upvotes	13
Comments	23
Date	August 6, 2021 9:44 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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