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[–]Inevitable-Victory57 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Mini shit test. She knows you want to, she wants to but wanted to confirm it, but also she doesn't want to make the first move so she retracted it by saying "yuck"
[–]Individual_Bag_1930 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
So what's the next step then
[–]Inevitable-Victory57 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let it slide because you're gonna see her anyway
[–]Inevitable-Victory57 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She works with you right...
[–]Individual_Bag_1930 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yea. But we hardly get a shift together. Could be another week till I see her again
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why haven't you asked her out yet
[–]Individual_Bag_1930 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Idk..she talks a lot about oh I met this guy on a party and I went on a date today and even shares pic of the boys she fancies to me, but sometimes even says oh some date stood her out and she's sad. She's like a mixed bag and I thought I wouldn't be able to handle her. Idk I do like her though but yea never gave it a try cause idk how she'll respond
[–]unisol84 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She might be playing games to keep you on the hook as well confusion is a tactic and her talking to you about other guys sounds friendzony to me personally. I would have asked her out, but she sounds like an attention seeker.
Fuck yes. Massive attention seeker. I think that's one of the reason why I never asked her out too. And when she talks about guys I like to just play it off like oh really, that's sad. And don't dig in too much
[–]unisol84 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then u know what u need to do keep it moving it ain't worth the headache.
Then that's why you just shoot her a text one night and say "hey I'm drinking boxed wine in my underwear, would you like to come over for some sparkling conversation? "
Then chill with her and keep it pushing
[–]Inevitable-Victory57 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Or she said "yuck" referring to herself. As in "yuck" did I just do something I wouldn't normally do?
[–]King-Britton 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doubt that bro, think you were right about the mini shit test thing
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
why dont you ask her whats that mean
[–]Individual_Bag_1930 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Like straight up, "wdym" ?
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
i mean idk how you would phrase it but she is a human being you are interacting with not like some puzzle. u can just be honest and let her know you are confused by these damn mixed signals.
So you mean just try and not sound like a dickhead
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
just ask whats that mean man keep me updated
Aight, I've got ya
[–]Stabbackqwert 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
diss her back. assume attraction. and assume she wants to keep a playful vibe. if you were the hottest guy in he world and she texted you that, what would you assume she ment by that? she joking around) joke around back.
also i recommend a little more pull to your game. when she pushed toward you with the “ill kiss you” you should’ve given a little bit if a light hearted response but don’t dwell on it its really mot that important.
edit: just saw some of the replys and most of them dont seem very helpful to me.
seriously learn to banter. say something like “stfu, i know your obsessed with me.”
or make fun of something about her.
“you really think i want to be kissed by your corny ass”
but keep it light hearted
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