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[–]loofyd 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
i am just amazed at your approach confidence ..
[–]unlivedbread 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
what do you mean?
[–]loofyd 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I have never approached a girl
I'm too scared
Meanwhile you're talking 300 approaches here ..
[–]unlivedbread 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
thanks, man. It helps to be motivated and knowing what you're going to say. My opener is generally "Hey, I was doing XYZ and saw you, I thought you were pretty so I thought I'd come introduce myself"
If they want to have a conversation its a tad more tricky tho.
[–]loofyd 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
ah i see .. you have a pattern to starting the conversation
did any girl ever get furious at you for calling her pretty out of nowhere ( i assume some women will get angry or creeped out by a total stranger calling them pretty )
why is this ? what's so hard to converse with her once you introduced yourself ?
[–]unlivedbread 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
None. The first approach told me somewhat rudely that she wasn't interested but later apologized. the other ones who rejected me were super flattered and let me know that I made their day
[–]loofyd 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
ok .. that's a bit encouraging
which country ? if you don't mind sharing ( you can dm if you want )
here i am scared to approach out of fear for my life
[–]unlivedbread 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Canada.
Id recommend going with a friend and doing this. Especially one who will push you to do it
[–]loofyd 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
precisely what i am going to do
i will go with a friend who is a local / native , so atleast i have a way out if God Forbid i get into any trouble ( i will try to be as sober and gentlemanly as possible and keep my distance )
esp since i don't know the native language, so i already have some work cut out for me
i will have to screen for english speakers first .. which is going to be, i guess fun ( yay ! Cold Approach might actually be fun instead of being scary ! )
[–]Looksmax123 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude I'm in your position as well - scared as fuck to start, and in particular afraid of bad reactions etc.
Let's hype each other up!
[–]miggysaurus-13 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Build a social Circle
[–]unlivedbread 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Pretty disingenuous if you're just looking to date tbh
[–]miggysaurus-13 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can date the friends of your friend.
[–]unlivedbread 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seems like to much work tbh. I'd rather just approach a ton of people
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