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[–]Glapierre 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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There’s a concept in game that I want to illustrate to you guys watching and it’s called, “get to the point”
Guys will talk about the weather, city, and everything they’re doing throughout the day. Yet they never get to the
They will not tell the girl, “look, maybe I’m interested in you”. They won’t give her a compliment to make it man to woman.
They keep things on a stranger level where its just conversation and praying it’ll go somewhere.
You have to understand that even though there is social pressure on you making it man to woman, there’s 100x more social pressure on her not to take a risk. Ex. slut shaming, social judgemental, etc.
Also in a cold approach scenario; YOU went up and talked to her. It’s YOUR job as the man to establish the premise and tell the girl what the conversation is.
What’s worse is that in many situations the girl actually likes the guy, but since he is not pushing towards it being man to woman; it goes to nowhere and she ends the conversation
And the reason she ended it isn’t because she didn’t like the guy. It’s because she hasn’t been told what the conversation topic is and it’ll be awkward to continue it.
Instead of you taking the 10 seconds of awkwardness to show interest. You spent 10 minutes of an awkward conversation with no escalation.
GET TO THE POINT!
Tell the girl you are interested. As simple as, “Hey. I thought you were cool” or “I enjoy meeting you” or “you’re kind of fun to talk to”. Anything along those lines is better than nothing!
If you don’t make it man to woman, no one will do it for you and the conversation will end.
Good Luck!
[–]appleORorange -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link
This is an absolute waste of time and its starting to wind me up, where was the FIRST PART OF THIS VIDEO.
"IF SHE HAS INTEREST IN YOU THEN GET TO THE POINT", if you get to the point and she has no intrest you WILL be labeled a creep. I know FOR A FACT if Brad Pit went up talking about the weather for 10 mins, there is NO WAY she will reject him... !!!!!
[–]NCreature 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
That's because Brad Pitt is prequalified, so to speak. She already know who he is. If he was just Brad, some plumber or garbage man he'd fall back into the same rules as everyone else.
[–]appleORorange -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
sure, you really believe Brad Pitt the plumber would be dumped over talking about the weather for 10 mins... means you really creating a situation to fit the story you want to believe...
[–]NCreature 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Bro I've met Brad Pitt personally. I work in the entertainment business. When you get to know these people up close they are no different than anyone else. He's a 56 year old guy with a bunch of kids. Take away the stardom and the fame and there's no magical power there.
[–]freethemans 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've met Brad Pitt too. I called him earlier asked him if he knew who you were and he said "nah who the fuck is that?"
[–]NCreature 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL...I'll have to make sure my Reddit handle is on my Linkedin page to avoid similar confusions in the future.
[–]appleORorange -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm not arguing the symantecs, i argue the point which is people like what they like...
Ive seen a winning lottery ticket, its just card with some numbers on it, real plain... see my point, i can get you one, wouldn't do anything for you now, however at another time it would..... i agree people are people, my point is, put Brad Pit whether a trashman, plumber of actor in front of someone and talk about the weather, they WILL NOT be dumped on the basis they are talking about the weather, THATS my point.
[–]Sultmaker_9000 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well there must be a billion videos on openers and creating attraction if that's what you're asking.
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