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[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 18 points19 points20 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
For maximum efficiency, use the Theta Coefficient with the Schliemann Transform to reduce demangement.
No wait, there is no such thing.
You must stop looking for reasons you can't find women, and start looking for reasons you can find women.
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[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Your mind is sabotaging itself. You are looking for reasons why it is hard to meet women. And your mind is very effective in creating those excuses, which are all true for you so you should believe them, and then take action anyway. You must change your mindset, and start seeing reasons why you can succeed, rather than looking for reasons you will fail.
[–]DaygameCoach 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Go out, approach, and don't worry about rejection. When woman a gives you a YES or a NO...it is great. Why is a NO good? Because it doesn't waste your time...like a MAYBE can. So, if she isn't appropriate for you for any reason...she is doing you a favor by not wasting your time...she is getting out of your way so you can approach other women until you find the right one(s).
Now, kill the self-limiting beliefs and excuses and approach 10 women a day for a year.Then get back to us and let us know how it went. And have fun...it's important. And...you are the PRIZE.
[–]letsriseup 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
u have the most important thing in check (logistics - big city)
this alone gives u more opportunities than any stud in bumfuk nowhere ever will
if u can't do well in this env, there's no excuses
also, ur confusing priorities...ur goal is to get better at seduction...not get an interesting life
I see too much "become interesting" advice thrown around in seduction forums...personally I don't give a chit about all that
Be boring as fuk...BUT master the stages of seduction...playing the game right will bear results more than any "interesting" hobby will
[–]MindsEvolve 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Use meetup.com to find other "nerds." There are lots of interesting AND hot women out there. You can definitely bring up the music at some point in the conversation and use that to your advantage. I also play a variety of instruments in the progressive metal realm, but I also learned some John Mayer and things which doesn't hurt with women either. It's very easy to meet interesting women this way. Use the world to funnel your dream girl to you.
-Evan Magor - Honest Dating Coach - Anyone who wants an awesome dating life can schedule a FREE 30 minute skype session with me: calendly.com/EvanMagor
[–]LavenderSmuggler 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How old are you?
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[–]LavenderSmuggler 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
You should go on tinder, honestly. Most people your age meet people by going out and when you go out you most likely find people who also like going out.
I'm a girl and am similar to you. I don't like going out how most of my friends do. Similar interests. when I was 19 I made the mistake of meeting someone out and when we were dating that's all he wanted to do. Very hard to keep up. Not very mentally stimulating.
[–]LavenderSmuggler 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
By going out, I meant bars. You could meet someone at a concert and you would then know you have a similar taste in music. The best advice I can give is, if you have a pet, put a picture of the two of you in your profile picture. Don't post pictures of a large group of guys and none of you by yourself.
[–]IronManSeduction 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hi Sinenominibus,
Here are a few places that I have had success with. Feel free to add to my list:
Also, if you are comfortable approaching women walking on the street, then your possibilities have just expanded exponentially.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cooking classes, science clubs/groups, book discussion groups. Dude. Its so fucking easy. Just get out of your comfort zone. You have things you like, you also have things you dont know if you like them but want to try them. JUST TRY THEM.
[–]j911kr 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There's an app called Tinder?...
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[–]j911kr 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This here https://youtu.be/ff7nltdBCHs This is a favorite of reddit and it's pretty awesome. It completely transformed my selfie game.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just go out
[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you live in a big city.. you say you're a smart guy.. but you can't put 1 and 1 together..
you sound like you think you're better than everyone else, hint, you're not
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