I am about to go on a date and I'm a bag of nerves. I don't like this feeling one bit. How the hell do I snap out of this? [recovered]

BigBirdFlu · 2012-03-15T18:12:53+00:00

Accept the nervousness and let it overtake you.Take a deep breathe and know you are nervous and its ok. Ive done this before instead of resisting and it seemed to get me through whatever I was doing better. Scuba diving freaked me the fuck out then I just accepted the worse case scenario and realized fuck it.

Rock3tSplint3r · 2012-03-15T17:53:37+00:00

Take one shot of Liquid Courage before the date.

1independentmale · 2012-03-15T18:31:23+00:00

She agreed to go on a date with you. That means she likes you, so the hard work is done. She will want you to kiss her by the end of the night so make sure you do that, or she will think you don't like her. Otherwise just enjoy yourself, don't stress.

vj88 · 2012-03-16T08:30:35+00:00

I get that feeling about 12pm every Friday till I go out that night. Just realize its your fear response cause you have no experience with this situation. It's a bad feeling but the more you fight it and do it anyway your fear response will get weaker and weaker each time. Plus you will get a confidence boost cause you did something good that your brain told you not to do

dejust · 2012-03-15T17:48:31+00:00

Why are you nervous? Because you are afraid of her judging you? Turn the situation around: She is the one who has to prove to you that she is worth your attention/admiration/...

Don't be a dick about it, though.

Title	I am about to go on a date and I'm a bag of nerves. I don't like this feeling one bit. How the hell do I snap out of this? [recovered]
Author	fweng [recovered]
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	March 15, 2012 5:21 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qy0t6/i_am_about_to_go_on_a_date_and_im_a_bag_of_nerves/
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