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[–]quinntuplets 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It sounds like its a bit excessive how flakey she is being. I would mention it next time you see her but the key is to show her that you really dont give a shit that shes flaking. Since you actually did go out I would just be like "you missed a great night out the other day". And she'll probably make up some b.s. about how she was busy. Play it cool, remain unaffected. I would take a break from trying to hang with her. Be mysterious about how you feel about her, act like youre into her and then like you aren't. Shell go mad wondering why youre not making a move.
[–]RobbieGarrett 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It sounds like its a bit excessive how flakey she is being. I would mention it next time you see her but the key is to show her that you really dont give a shit that shes flaking.
I think I get what you mean, so by not messaging her or calling her is showing that I am bothered? Please clarify? My natural instinct says to drop all communication with her until she contacts me. I believe that's the right thing to do, as she's taken the piss in a lot of respects.
Since you actually did go out I would just be like "you missed a great night out the other day". And she'll probably make up some b.s. about how she was busy. Play it cool, remain unaffected.
Yeah, I think at some point she'll message me. It seems that's what she was going to do earlier by finally reading my message from Monday afternoon, she has been online the last few days, so I presumed she deleted it? Whatsapp only shows it read today at 1408hrs. Bit strange as to why people do that - but she was clearly avoiding talking to me.
Be mysterious about how you feel about her, act like youre into her and then like you aren't. Shell go mad wondering why youre not making a move.
Distance makes the heart grow fonder right? I like her, and I have contacted her on a few random times and she seems to like it. So I guess by not making any more moves, will make her go mad? Especially because last night I was hanging with another girl on her ticket that I brought for her. Pulling another girl and snapchatting it is a very 21st century way of making a woman see what she's missing? Before you had to pull in front of her friends right? Logistical nightmare...
[–]Kurt_Kobain 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
You're a colossal doormat.
[–]Bojanglo1990 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're a bully
Dont message or call for a while seems like u get the rest
She just messaged me this evening. Asking if I'm working Wednesday. This is after liking one of my instagram pictures. She must have saw some snapchats with other girls and finally cracked?
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