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[–]DirkDieGurke 15 points16 points17 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Just wait. And basically start working on someone else. This one has low interest.
[–]Baloney_Tugboat 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
We've already fucked and are on the same terms on what we want, so I'm confused on why you say that. Everything was good until I got no response for whatever reason.
[–]DirkDieGurke 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You had sex, and she thinks it was just sex. Girls are just like you and me. Plus they have so many more options.
She is acting like she has something more important to do, which is probably true in her mind.
[–]Baloney_Tugboat 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Hmm, it seemed like more then that, it was very intamite. Iv spent time with her since then and she still seemed attracted to me.
[–]Baloney_Tugboat 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
And another point to add, she hasn't been very good at texting back since I've started texting her... Maybe that's the problem? (I'm texting her)
[–]DirkDieGurke 8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok then. Whatever the reason she didn't get back to you, just don't double text. You sent a text, no need to send another one. Period.
[–]Fangore 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you double text her, you will come off as needy and desperate. That's an even bigger turn off. If you have another chance with this girl, it will be ruined by double texting.
[–]JustAnotherWanker69 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
If you do anything now that will show neediness. Girls hate neediness, she is unreceptive. Move on.
Edit: just read you had sex, don't message her , if she doesn't respond then move on. Nothing you can really do
What should I do if she responds? Play the same game or move on and text her back? Edit: she could be shit testing me.
[–]JustAnotherWanker69 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Could be a shit test, maybe play around, keep things playful as being direct would be desperate
[–]Baloney_Tugboat 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can you elaborate?
[–]JustAnotherWanker69 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe some banter as to why she might not have responded, anything that doesn't make you look need it desperate is fine
[–]Baloney_Tugboat 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's what I was thinking of doing but I have no idea how to.
[–]pointguard2534 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm not sure what the rules are on this sub for plugging other resources, but check out the work of Corey wayne on youtube. Hes a life coach who mostly focuses on relationships, Ive found his advice spot on, and I think others on this sub have, too. Pretty sure he has videos on exactly this topic.
With that being said, dont text her until she texts you back. Think of it like a tennis match - by texting her, you hit the ball over the net. Now you have to wait for her to hit it back. You dont go running over to the other side of the net trying to hit it back to yourself.
Best of luck.
I will! Thank you.
[–]juliusstreicher 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You communicated with her twice, with zero response.
The ball is in her court. Use the rule from "16 Commandments of Poon"-contact her 1 time for her contacting you 2 times. So, she owes you 4 contacts. She hasn't done it 1 time.
Answer: She don't give a fuck.
Yup
[–]Lambdal7 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Bad advice here, move one, forget about her because she didn't text back once lol.
So what was your last exchange? You just need a good text and you can reinitiatr easily.
Her last message to me was (hey, have a good/productive day!) I told her thanks with a smiley face and then nothing.
[–]Lambdal7 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So just wait, but don't text again. She's probably busy.
Just wait. But don't ask her generic questions like how was your day or what did you do last week. These questions are just annoying as fuck to answe.
Instead, ask her specific questions that are fun to answer. Very important.
[–]Baloney_Tugboat 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Any tips on good questions too ask?
[–]falshami 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well to be fair your initial reply to her really gave her no reason to reply. It was a conversation ender. I'll reply with a thank you and a question or a witty remark that will usually be appropriate to reply to with banter or something. I think the point is to keep people on their toes. If they've won you they tend to lose interest. I'm often told I am hard to read though I'm open and outgoing. And hey they still reply to me so I'll associate the two. just a suggestion!
[–]Thrownaway1969 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn't ever respond to a text like this haha. Why would someone respond to this? Search value giving text messages.
I was thinking if she doesn't text back by tomorrow night then I'll send her a good night text
[–]bakedalien 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't
Alright
Yea I suck at texting, I know
[–]Baloney_Tugboat 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Welp she's coming over later. I got this. Edit: hour passed, i asked where she was. No reponse
Update: still no word or sign of her..she's probably not coming.
Update: still nothing, should I forget about her or try to redeem the relationship in a day or two?
[–]DopeAsAWolf 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
considering how crazy grls are, there r a bunch of things that could be happening. Its nothing to do with u. Just dont be needy and forget about it, until she texts u back
Its the fact of not knowing if it's me or not. I realize I will know in due time, but I still hate it. And yea, I'm definitely not trying to be needy. Thanks for the advice.
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