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[–]Eufedoriaa 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a feeling thing. If eye contact with them makes you feel attraction to them, it's likely that they will be attracted to you.
One thing you know for sure if you feel that attraction, is that you should give it a go. So approach them anyway and find out the only way you'll ever find out of they're really attracted to you.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Perfect, not even a cold approach, you can use the eye contact on an open quite smoothly. Might put up a big wall shit test after open, but just hold frame, they have to test you. Don’t let their actions spike your emotions when things like that happen. You’re the rock, you make the waves- not them. They’re looking at you? Whatever. Who cares what they mean if it’s the beginning of the encounter. You just know you have an opportunity to give some good emotions and that’s your purpose - it’s your duty even (not to say don’t provide any negative spikes for fun - just don’t supplicate)
Sometimes eye contact is just you looking at them. If there are other signals involved such as fiddling with her hair or smiling at you then she is probably interested.
[–]PeperoParty 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In that situation, she’s opening you. The more interested they are the more they’ll try to make eye contact. If you don’t approach after that you’re either uninterested or have no balls.
Some girls will get offended if ur not interested after all her efforts. Meaning they’re not attractive enuf to get you to approach her.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you had something, they wouldn't hold eye contact because it's rude. Likely they are curious about you.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
hmm good point. curious how ?
Curious as in they wonder what kind of person you are, what you enjoy...
[–]moontripper1246 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't. It's an instinct built over hundreds of interactions
[–]mandoa_sky 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
see if they are smiling or not?
what if they aren't smiling lmao
[–]QawL 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I did this when a girl in library was looking at me 2 days in a row without a doubt. At first we talked, I was so nervous but get warmed up after a while.
After that was so confusing, she avoided me (??). Maybe I was so bad at the first time we talked, maybe she was looking at me thinking about who is this creep. Still I don't now till this day. Waiting for final's week to ask her directly, if she was interested in knowing me but been too shy.
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