Been Going Out Daily to Pickup Girls.. But Fail Despite Following RSD.. Why??

Funkimonkey · 2019-07-20T10:37:41+00:00

Because RSD isn’t the end all be all.

If you can bounce them, then the initial pickup went just fine.

Something is off when you get to the lounge.

You need to calibrate - maybe you are too forward, maybe not enough. Get them more comfortable with you.

My guess is you’re tall, intimidating, and forward - all things that could make them very attracted to you, but also scared.

The nerd thing makes sense too if that is the case.

Get to know them better. Build more comfort. Sounds like you are running solid but too much attraction game.

I would scale back.

disciplinedFreedom · 2019-07-20T13:41:02+00:00

Why not just approach American girls? They’re likely to stick around. Could become a future fwb or girlfriend. I don’t think they are any “harder” to get with and I’m not sure where you got that idea from. Also, numbers mean absolutely nothing. You get the number as a means to continue the interaction. Not to collect numbers

koolxxxxx · 2019-07-20T14:40:46+00:00

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koolxxxxx · 2019-07-20T20:59:52+00:00

Are you thinking about sex?

Do you have an end goal in mind instead of being in the moment?

Are you reading her and creating situations?

Are you paying for everything?

Are you being genuine?

Do you NEED her?

The way you yelled and felt seemed like you might've been too attached to an outcome and felt disrespected (which is very understandable). Normally if you were confident you may make a joke like "uh huh suure you're leaving tomorrow"

It's difficult man and I feel your pain but it seems like you care too much and this used to be my problem.

RSD tactics are interesting and have merit but the most valuable thing you can get from them is

"Getting good at game isn't something you do, it's something you are" paraphrasing.

bemore_ · 2019-07-27T21:54:51+00:00

It's because you're gaming them. It's because you're spending time, energy and money on them

Running game creates fundamental errors. For example, you're going to try to hook up with any decent woman that likes you, even though against your best judgment you really shouldn't and this same girl is the one that's going to flake on you and make you feel like you messed up somewhere. However when you go after the girls you really want, even if she tells you to get lost there and there you'll feel really good because you're going after what you want, not for ego or validation that you're attractive and have game.. but that you desire and want her. It's all subtle

It's the same fundamental problem with the mystery method - when you're gaming a girl you're going to go through a list of things you think you should do. Some dude online says "no man go to 'comfort' now ", your head was in 'attraction', like the mystery method. You gotta let it be simple, I understand, we're learning so we put in a lot of effort to get it right. You're close though, at least some women are already into you so you're doing the right things

But now the process is deductive, we're not doing more, we're doing less. Less game, less texting, less talking .. more fun

2019-08-15T02:41:00+00:00

What I have learned is dont dedicate time on them intentionally just mix it in your daily routines. It should happen just like that. I usually talk to girls during my 10 to 15 min commute in subway. And it works. Guage their response on initial convo. Mostly, getting number is nothing, everything starts when they respond and decides to meet next time. Here are some things you can try

Ask them to try a new food item you discovered? Ask them for a short walk with your dog, ask for help in borrowing a book in library.. choose or create your own questions based on her interests.

Title	Been Going Out Daily to Pickup Girls.. But Fail Despite Following RSD.. Why??
Author	koolxxxxx
Upvotes	4
Comments	13
Date	July 20, 2019 8:55 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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