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Cull_The_Meek · 2019-11-22T16:20:06+00:00

Hey man, good on ya. You deserve better than someone who gives you a maybe. Keep on truckin.

Visualize_ · 2019-11-22T16:59:58+00:00

Why the huge gap between the first meet up and second meet up?

MountainClimax · 2019-11-23T02:04:21+00:00

Say something like "Maybe you should say yes"

And then: "let's do something else if you say no. Pinball arcade"

Don't get butt hurt if she says no. You just asked friend type stuff so you wouldn't get mad if your friend said no, you'd just try to reschedule and tell them they're boring if they never come out

Prideful_Armenian · 2019-11-22T17:58:07+00:00

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Infinatewisdom1111 · 2019-11-22T18:26:47+00:00

Sounds like you let it cool off too much with the big gap.

It's like a fire, you've got to keep blowing the flames and building that fire, especially in those early days.

Just let her see you living life, having fun without her, perusing your passions and if she's still interested, it will be fine.

I'd also recommend not following up with any kind of "Well what does maybe mean" kind of submissive/seeking permission behavior. Just go with "Hey, so you didnt give me an answer last time. Do you want to go out again .... maybe next time we can do XYZ?"

The1neRedDevil · 2019-11-23T14:24:13+00:00

Just be a man about it. Do the right thing. She blew it with YOU. C’mon. Go out and talk to five other women, move on. Phshh! She told you “maybe”? Have some self respect and get out there. YOU deserve more! Good luck!

Bigbaby22 · 2019-11-23T20:08:31+00:00

It might not even mean no.

Give her space. Let her know, very clearly, that you are attracted to her and would like to meet up with her for dinner or something.

But acknowledge the maybe. Adapt to it. Instead of seeing it as an obstacle, look at it from her pov. She's hesitant about something, maybe she's short in time for the week. Give her power. Tell her to think it over and get back to you.

The most successful men I have seen have very little ego. They are open and inviting. Approachable. But they aren't pushovers. State your intentions, respect her time, space, and feelings. If she agrees: spectacular! If she says no: then thank her for taking the time to consider and for her honesty and move.

pepinopocho · 2019-11-25T00:38:41+00:00

Means no

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Date	November 22, 2019 3:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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