The power of eye contact in seduction

mav3rric · 2020-01-03T02:06:43+00:00

Cannot stressed enough how true this is. It works... every... damn... time. You have to keep in mind, when you have enough confidence to hold an extended gaze and time the smile, you’re likely to have other attractive qualities. But still... highly recommended.

60% of the time it works everytime.

harryhoudini66 · 2020-01-03T00:47:09+00:00

Body language and eye contact are more powerful than words in my opinion.

imageall · 2020-01-03T18:45:23+00:00

So that's why women evolved lovely breasts... to thwart our eye-contact magick...! Dastardly.

2020-01-03T00:46:12+00:00

A strong, confident, and intense gaze is a direct way to my heart and for me to get to hers. Angling the head downward just a bit so that you're having to look slightly up to make eye contact will really magnify your eyes. It takes some practice in the mirror to make it seductive and not creepy, but making and keeping that eye contact is the big game changer.

ImJustSo · 2020-01-03T15:25:20+00:00

My eye contact will fuck a girl all up. Whatever she was thinking about just goes completely out their ears. I'm called confident, but I just see it as me not thinking about me. I'm not self conscious and I'm not thinking about anything except soaking up the world's wonders. Girls are one of those things I find wonderful, so if I find a pair of eyes to appreciate, then I find no reason to look away. That shit totally fucks a girl up.

Here's one story I've told here before, this was about 6-7 years ago in a graduate level course. Professor designed the course around the students picking from his curriculum of research articles, reading it, understanding it, creating a presentation, and then teaching it to the class that day. Afterwards, the professor corrects and misunderstandings and we all discuss it together. In groups of 1-3, we would all take turns each week. I was about 30-31yo, older than most the others, so more diligent in the readings. Often called on, etc. I always sat near the door, half way forward of the room from it.

Alternatively, there was this girl that always sat in the back corner, opposite the door. I never paid much attention to her. Except for the day she presented her article alone. She was all done up, had makeup on, her hair done, thin scarf tied around her throat. She was a smoke show. I was totally bored of her article, I fully knew it, so I just started mentally fucking her.

Well, she's cruising along, slide to slide on the PowerPoint. During the end of one slide, she makes eye contact with me. Whatever she saw, her voice caught in her throat and just stopped, completely dumbfounded. Then she stutters, looks away and blushes, skips a slide ahead and then clicks back to where she was supposed to be. She regains her composure and finishes her presentation, but doesn't look my way again at all. She completely and purposely seemed to be avoiding it.

It's time for her to go sit back in her seat though. Except she doesn't go to her corner, she walks straight down my aisle, sits right next to me. Ha.

After class finishes, she spins in her seat and asks, "Hey! So whatcha doing after class? Want to study or something?" Double ha!

So, yep, eye contact is powerful. That's one of the most glaringly obvious and impactful lessons I learned in seduction. I have been consciously aware of my eye contact ever since. Nowadays, I've had girls tell me that looking into my eyes is like trying to stare into the sun. I will stare right into a woman's eyes, into her soul, straight through to her pussy and I fuckin know that I'm doing it. I don't believe in mind reading, but it sure seems like girls know when I'm staring through their soul to their pussy!

I just have no shame or self conscious worry that I shouldn't look someone in the eyes. I permit me to look at the world and women are part of the world. I'm allowed to think what I want while I am doing it. So I do.

Apparently that makes me sunshine. Man, I love seeing fully grown women blush like school girls.

CollapseSoMainstream · 2020-01-03T01:02:04+00:00

I have an intermittent lazy eye so this was super difficult for me to start doing. I made almost no eye contact ever for most of my life. I don't know if eye contact is one of the reasons for it, but I've only started being able to connect with people since I started doing it.

My whole life I missed this entire friggin reality that contains emotions, connections, interesting dynamics between people, their motivations.... it's really as if I've seen a whole new reality that I just had no ability to grasp before.

This is in combination with other things I've been doing, but it wouldn't have come to fruition if not for the eye contact I think.

bertamous_bagel · 2020-01-02T23:59:09+00:00

This is awesome. I’m gonna research this. I’ve probably been doing this subconsciously. Would love to know the actual ins and outs of it

Cynical_Doggie · 2020-01-03T09:15:43+00:00

Eyes don't lie. You can tell what the other is thinking by looking at their eyes, and the muscles around their eyes, which basically most people cannot consciously control all the time.

chillbro113 · 2020-01-10T22:01:00+00:00

Doing the triangle seduces ME to the girl I’m doing it with. Awesome videos! If you have more please share!

hamadahuncho · 2020-01-03T08:43:19+00:00

That make no sense.

Title	The power of eye contact in seduction
Author	NotDumbRemarks
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Date	January 2, 2020 8:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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