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[–]KingWolf7070 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's simple really. Someone sees you as a sexual object if there is only physical attraction. Someone sees you as a sexual being if there is both physical and emotional attraction. Neither is necessarily wrong or better. You have to know what you want and make that clear to your partners.
[–]Vixengoddess01 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Their attachment style. Are they distant emotionaly. Do they ask you about your emotional wellbeing? Do they just text/talk to you about one thing. Ask yourself, could they fullfill me in an emotional way to?
[–]PiperBigBell 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
What are you asking? Whether someones wants to actually fuck you and that's it? Or just how they respond to your energy in general when your giving off sexual energy?
[–]PrettyPopping 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Both pls.
[–]PiperBigBell 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If a guy wants to fuck you and that's it, he won't invest in real tangible time or resources besides sex, and the occasional message to see if you're still alive and interested in having sex. He will invest the bare minimum to keep in contact with you. Only enough to smash. Then leave.
Next, guys know you're a sexual being. But the way you project that is through loose, seductive tonality. Having a carefree nonjudgenental attitude in conversation. Having flowing, genuine words. Piercing, laser like, seductive eye contact.
Teasing in conversation. Being suggestive in the way you talk. Walking with looseness, sensuality, grace, attitude. If a guy sees you as a sexual being, if he's an actual man, he'll try to flirt with you and seduce you.
[–]PrettyPopping 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I got no idea how to do any of the stuff you mentioned here.
[–]PiperBigBell 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then i would advice you to go on YouTube and look up female dating coaches. I don't agree with them, but they can teach you how to get what you want from men. Asha C is pretty good.
[–]kitsch_kath 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For me being seen as a sexual object is being seen as one step better then a fleshlight or one of those blow-up dolls. Being seen as a sexual object means that I’m not seen as a human being, someone with opinions, feelings and a whole life going on. Being catcalled is objectifying to me, being groped without my consent is objectifying to me, forcing a kiss on me is objectifying to me, being told that all I want is to fuck “Chad” and all I want and think about is this and that and bullshit from here to infinity and beyond is objectifying to me, being followed around by a person even after several no’s is objectifying to me, being called a prude for saying no to sex and a slut for saying yes to sex is objectifying to me, being told that me wearing makeup is “false advertising” is objectifying to me.
I do not like being looked at as an object for someone to take and use. I do not like being viewed as a prize (in my case probably consolation prize, but the point still stands). I do not like having my feelings and opinions and experiences discounted because I’m a giiiiiiiirl, and I should just shut up and spread my legs. To me this is all signs of a person seeing me as nothing more than something they can use and abuse as they like, and it creeps me the fuck out!
Being seen as a sexual being is different, in my book. It’s about the signals I send, that I do enjoy sex, and have been known to partake. It’s about approaching me, but respecting a “no”. It’s about viewing me as a complete, whole and complex person, who also likes sex. It’s about so much more than just stuffing your penis up my vagina, grunting a bit and rolling over. It can also be a platonic thing; talking with your friends (m/f/o) about sex, being open about sex.
I guess it boils down to respect, for me. Viewing anyone as a sexual object is, in my opinion, gross and disrespectful. Viewing a person as a sexual being is a more respectful approach (you can still fuck it up, though)
Anyway, that’s just my two cents ...
[–]REVENGEBLA 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
From what perspective are you asking from male or female dom or sub
[–]PrettyPopping 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I’m female. I’m not really either.
[–]REVENGEBLA 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Alright is someone currently into you?
[–]PrettyPopping 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No suitors rn.
[–]REVENGEBLA 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll address only in pm now so this dosent get confusing
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