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tawwei · 2020-09-26T12:15:52+00:00

It's difficult hence be outcome independent. Just play it like a game.

vogonpoet20 · 2020-09-26T15:56:00+00:00

Read "She's Six Steps Away" by Eric Disco (it's available on Amazon for about nine bucks).

The author has a six stage plan with very gradual steps which build up to cold approaches, rather than just jumping in at the deep end. This helped me a lot with the sort of issues you describe.

Having canned openers is OK, but in the early stages it's better to just have some fairly innocent lines that you won't be too scared to deliver (or mess up if/when you do). Just getting a conversation going (about anything) is a good first objective, don't put yourself under a lot of pressure initially.

FormalBox5666thr · 2020-09-26T11:56:09+00:00

That's really good bro ' keep it on! Well done. That's a good start

I feel like I need to be more impulsive and just embrace the embarrassment and uncomfortable nature of the situation.

Well I think you are scared to feel rejected, which can be hurtful.

Try to think some rejection you could face, and how you can handle it or cope it. That may help in your action.

unorthodox_thoughts · 2020-09-26T19:08:55+00:00

Next time, try having a drink or two first 🍻 then pop a mint so you dont smell like a drunk 😉

nordicdatingmentor · 2020-09-26T23:21:50+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ixmr6i/how_to_efficiently_improve_your_game/

neisbsudnei9191 · 2020-09-28T21:27:18+00:00

She is attractive.... you don’t know her or anything about her lmfao of course that’s your only reason for approaching. You think women don’t know that you want to fuck when you approach them?

blunt_eastwood · 2020-10-05T20:04:05+00:00

Your context is off. You're going out to approach. Stop that!

Memorize some canned routines and just go out and practice speaking to people and using them.

Challenge yourself to approach 10 women a day and you will eventually become more comfortable and able to approach with the intent of picking women up.

Also, where do you live?

erikmalkavian · 2020-10-17T23:35:56+00:00

Thanks for sharing OP and keep your head up.

Remember its ok to go up and talk to women and not have any intentions, that way you are relaxed and not super-invested into the outcome.

You can always approach them about something you noticed about them and you wanted to meet them...simple

mikeagb0930 · 2020-09-26T13:04:59+00:00

If you’re just going out to approach you’ll think it’s creepy in your own head which will stop you approaching.

It is far, far better to be doing something, even if that something is very minor like going to the other end of the mall to buy some chewing gum. It gives you a legit, non creepy reason to be there and it will be reflected in your approach.

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