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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Abadhon 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
imo next time if you don't step up and get her number / ask her for a date , you will be put in the "library friend" zone
[–]Kommoncents1 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. Make the first date something super light like mini golf or bowling (those are my go tos)
[–]pua_max 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
shit that's super light? I'm just a let's get ice cream kinda guy. More power to you though I never do those kinda dates.
[–]Kommoncents1 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love going on dates lmao. Ice cream is also a very safe bet
[–]7Saturn7Saturn7 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only reason cold approach is a thing is because you can't see the girl again 99.99% of the time. If you can then doing what you're doing and warm approaching many times is best. Just flirt a bit and you won't get friendzoned like the other poster said. Invite her to something but no need to make a big deal if you'll see her again.
[–]Asian_Alpha 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
next two times you go to the library and she's there, ignore/avoid her. i mean 0 eye contact etc. then the 3rd time talk to her again
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