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[–]goron24 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She sounds flaky and indecisive. I'd kick her to the curb man.
[–]fapfapfapd 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're absolutely right, I reached a point in this situation where I'm just experimenting some stuff I've read about LJBF for example giving her a Freeze Out. I'm just curious to see what will happen.
[–]revente 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sounds like too much drama with too little potential.
Yeah, you're right she doesn't deserve my effort. I will treat this as a experiment to see if the Freeze Out works in these situations
[–]DenverPUA 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You people are just being played, you are one of her beta orbiters and you don't even realize it. The ex boyfriend is probably fucking her everyday and you guys keep giving her validation and putting her on a pedestal.
[–]fapfapfapd 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Totally true except I think she absolutely hates her ex even thought she's probably fucking some dude. I will just ignore her and maybe she starts chasing me again. If she doesn't fuck it plenty fish in the sea.
[–]DenverPUA -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That is the right attitude. Dont give these hoes any control over your life and your emotions. She probably ain't all that anyways. If a bitch flakes on you all the time, never spends time with you at a place that could lead to sex, you better believe she is playing you, dont believe anything she says.
[–]fapfapfapd 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the advice man I'm still new to the scene and made the terrible mistake of putting her in a pedestal and was a total simp, waste of time. Oh well at least I learned something.
[–]heyL0litahey 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i’m a girl my advice is , stop engaging when in groups unless she does, don’t go over the top to speak , if u feel her looking at you , check out another girl , but do just enough to let her know y’all are still friends. it doesn’t make sense but it will make her start thinking about u again or questioning herself if you are no longer sexually attracted to her , and will most likely try to figure out what has shifted your attention. simple
Thank you, great advice I will definitely do this! Basically just show her that I don't care anymore but enough to be friends right?
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