First time getting flaked on, advice?

Blurry-Nights · 2021-03-20T21:25:15+00:00

I don't know why people are downvoting /u/IcarusBane1, he's absolutely right.

All of the flirting I do with women prior to my cock being inside of them isn't overtly sexual, it's almost entirely subtle / covertly sexual. I do a lot of touch escalation during the approach, and during the 1st date, and I bring them home on the 1st date, but I don't say anything overtly sexual until after we've fucked. If you are sexual before you've had sex, it shows you as a player and most high value women are not interested in players.

IcarusBane1 · 2021-03-20T18:32:01+00:00

You don’t talk about going back to your place or her place when you’re making plans. Just tell her the initial date the park or cafe and if the date is going well then you say come back to mine etc. Sexting before actual sex is a big no no tbh you don’t wanna really be sexual till sex happens. You can flirt even some sexual flirting just a touch. You showed your hand way too early and she already knew what you wanted you gotta keep women thinking but dw you just started keep on approaching you’ll get better

Rruneangel · 2021-03-20T21:37:13+00:00

What I think is kinda bad.

You planned too far. The coffee date and we'll see from there should be enough
Don't ask for nudes. Most women will provide them w/o asking if you turn her on so much, but don't directly ask for them, it makes u look thirsty.
I believe she got cold feet. Basically you built a fantasy for her, she would not be able to live up to.
You tried to reach her too many times about the plans Friday night, but did you ask how she is ? They want to have sex just like you, but not objectified.

Title	First time getting flaked on, advice?
Author	BubbleBlowingBabyy
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	March 20, 2021 6:16 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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