Correct me if I’m wrong but I don’t believe this is being discussed nearly enough.

Demographics: Basically the idea is that you are selling yourself in game so treat yourself like a product. Every product has a target demographic it is tailored towards. This can be translated into attraction with a simple question; what type of girl/boy do you find attractive? Then tailor yourself to this demographic.

I’ll use myself as an example, for the longest time I had no luck with the girls I was attracted to which is alternate/rocker type girls and I didn’t know why. Then I read Mark Mansons Models and could believe how obvious it was. I was dressed, looked and behaved like the average guy. Well fitted t shirts, slim fit jeans and Adidas trainers with the short back and sides faded hairstyle. I decided to look into the fashion, music and culture of the girls I was attracted to and realised I really enjoyed it. Suddenly I’m wearing black ripped jeans, doc martens, a Metallica t shirt and a leather jacket, not to mention growing out my hair significantly. And what do you know suddenly those girls were drawn to me because of my style and then enjoyed the convo because we bonded over bands that we enjoyed.

Am I saying change into a person your not to get the girl/boy you want? No. What I am saying is find what that demographic is into ,although yes this is easier for more niche demographics, and see if you enjoy those things. If you do then commit and go all in, listen to artists/bands entire discographies, immerse yourself in the fashion and culture of it. You may just find the girl of your dreams and more importantly a place you believe you truly belong.

But hey that’s just my two cents.