desperate disable guy

jasonninetyone · 2014-01-15T02:21:18+00:00

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Shubrook · 2014-01-15T02:41:11+00:00

First up, it is totally normal to be frustrated at 17. If you've been rejected twice and friendzoned twice, you haven't made enough approaches to know a pattern, let alone become good at them. Don't be discouraged. You will learn.

A friend of mine has brittle bones. He's not wheelchair bound, but his brother was, for a while. Neither of them can be 5'0. They are both elbow deep in women 24/7.

I think they prefer house parties. They sort of 'hold court' on the couch at the center of the party.

You can still dress well and live a life that will attract women. Do your reading, get your practice in, and you should be fine.

recoverystyle · 2014-01-15T15:40:57+00:00

Hey man, I'm 32 and I'm still learning every day. I've laid a couple of new girls in the past week, but I've also been rejected in the last week MANY MORE times than that, and in the last year I've probably been rejected HUNDREDS of times.

I can assure you, all of this gets easier as you get older. High School is a really tough time and you're still learning a lot about yourself every day. You've also got the chance to start kicking ass at young age which is awesome. That means you could get REALLY good at this with all the time you have ahead of you to get better.

In your title, you refer to yourself as desperate. Keep in mind that your thoughts become your actions which ultimately lead to your results. Choose to believe positive things about yourself. Instead of saying you're desperate, realize you're really just hungry and eager to get a girl. This is good! I'm eager and hungry to get girls too! Everyone here is hungry - that's why we come to this subreddit!!

You say you want to know what you are doing wrong. It's good that you know you want to get better, but try to focus on something small you can practice every day to get better, instead of focusing on what you're doing wrong. As you practice, the things you're doing wrong will become obvious and get better. By the time you're my age you will be WAY better with girls.

Maybe you commit to 15 minutes a day approaching girls, or 10 minutes getting tips and 10 minutes trying them out.

I HIGHLY recommend the book "The Slight Edge" for helping you shift to a more empowering attitude focused on getting better daily. It really changed my life and I hope it could be helpful for you too.

charm3 · 2014-01-15T06:04:16+00:00

Sean Stephenson!

steam_wheeler · 2014-01-15T22:32:00+00:00

Hey man! I know how you feel. I've been in a wheelchair since I was 17, so I can tell you, its ok. Since my accident I've dated three other girls, have had plenty of action in between, and am dating some one right now. My biggest piece of advice? Focus more on yourself right now. Do the things that interest you and you'll build up your confidence and meet people who like similar things. Trust me man, the girls are out there that won't even notice your disability.

WNY_PUA · 2014-01-15T03:09:34+00:00

I know that you're in a very unique situation, but others have actually come to /r/seduction with a very similar problem.

Do a search on some of your keywords including "wheelchair," "little person," "midget," and "disabled." There has been some great advice given to people in a similar situation.

Good luck!

balzac308 · 2014-01-15T05:00:22+00:00

come on bro you are only 17!! i wish i had that age again!!

403redditor · 2014-01-15T05:50:49+00:00

Look up Sean Stephenson on youtube maybe he'll inspire you.

kingcal · 2014-01-15T03:34:20+00:00

I don't know a lot of high school girls who'd date a guy in a wheelchair. Not saying it can't happen later, but pretty much everyone in high school is way too superficial to really do it.

Title	desperate disable guy
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Date	January 15, 2014 2:05 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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