...I guess just bullshit excuses. I walked past a lone Asian tourist taking photos after dark. Not many people out, pretty much zero lone tourist women out other than her. I could have talked to her and I guess I should have. But in my head I was replaying a rejection a few weeks ago. Bitterness and anticipating a negative response made me not approach. So often I have this mindset. Maybe if I had been off dating apps for a while I would have had a different reaction when I saw her. What to do about this shitty mindset that hinders me?