Okay guys, I cant take this anymore. I need some of your wisdom.

So i have my high school circle of friends, grade school circle of friends and college circle of friends. The things is, when im with my gradeschool friends, family members, and my other college friends, im the fucking boss, i have fucking respect and shit like that. When im with my high school friends, its the other way around. I turn into a weak guy. Easy to make fun off and always taken advantage off. Everytime this happens i just let it go and tell to myself to offer value and offer value and shit. But no, Ive learned from countless of programs like form RSD and jason capital and shit but I only got a little improvement. Need some help guys, ive known my HS friends for a while now. They have noticed that i have changed compared to before but they still subconsciously see me as beneath them.