For the longest time, I thought that if I kept my hair decent, smelled nice, worked out, and was smart, I would have no trouble getting girls.

So, I recently found out that I had one missing requirement. I need to have an entourage or if I don't have one I need to get one.

I talked to girl after girl, they just seemed disinterested and or annoyingly distant and I got A little resentful. I'm fleeking hot, got abs, funny, and have courage. What's the problem?

Well, I took A step back for A few weeks knowing full well the shotgun tactic of getting A number would only lead to text silence or excuses.

So clearly I was doing something wrong. I took A step back figured, maybe if I did more things around campus, people would notice.

So I focused on my dance-clubs performance.

Made sure I was seen with people.

Then, I went to a lil-Uzi show with 4 friends (All of em were girls)

I danced with them, branched out and danced with other girls and guys, didn't let it bug me when other girls didn't want to dance with me.

Danced with the girls I came with, and when we left, I lightly grabbed her shoulder, looked in her eyes and lightly smiled and said: "See you later Maria" (Maria isn't her name, not important)

We arranged an ice-cream cone date for Wednesday, she was packing her things out of her dorm though, we're still talking so it didn't really bother me.

What I realized though through this success is what I was doing wrong.

Girls need confirmation in you, they need to know you are safe and cool, and okay. Your singular presence isn't enough for that. You need to have allies.

I think this is why people in the PUA forums when Pickup was popular would always tell us "you don't wanna talk to the alone ones, you wanna talk to the ones with friends."

I'm good at talking to random strangers, but for some reason I have always had anxiety in groups. Then it struck me: "Wait, . . . No I fleeking don't. . . " Worst thing that can happen? All of the girls in the group are stuck up? Cool, don't talk to em anymore. Those types of people are boring and undatable.

What usually happens is a conversation that I find my way into really easily because I'm well rounded.

I know A fuckton of people on campus, I've become friends with 4 groups of people, so what's A group of girls to me?

I need to practice this further, make sure I'm right. But I believe I have the right idea here.