Do I move on?

SlyderKmK · 2019-07-13T17:37:33+00:00

Hanging out with women is suppose to be fun, and flirty...not full of damn head games. If you dont like the way she is talking to you...be assertive, and tell her. It will either piss her off, and you can leave...or she will respect you more.

But, this playing games is BS, and I wouldnt talk to you anymore, either.

Grow up dude!

smoothmax · 2019-07-13T20:33:45+00:00

If this is the one girl that you're interested in right now, you need to spin more plates. You should have 3, 4, or even 10 girls that you're either actively gaming or thinking about gaming.

The book/website "The Rational Male" is big on this and it's absolutely great advice.

Nothing else will give you that "I don't give a fuck because my life is full of abundance" feeling.

Not one piece of PUA advice that you read on this forum or elsewhere will do you any good unless you apply it "across the board" meaning to all of the several (or many) girls that you're gaming. Everything sexual and romantic that you try will fall flat if you're desperate for "just one girl" to give you validation. No matter how hot she is.

You can't be cocky/funny or push-pull with just one girl when you're a captive planet, stuck in her orbit.

Believe it or not each individual girl will react better to you and give you more/better attention when you're gaming other girls or even THINKING about gaming other girls. It's a special sense that women have, which they figure out from your posture when you're around her, your tone of voice and even the tone, length and frequency of your emails and text messages.

You'll feel better too because instead of beating yourself up about things you messed up the last time you saw a girl, you'll be looking forward to the next interaction with another girl where you can correct and improve on your game.

homicidalclown18 · 2019-07-13T16:57:59+00:00

You sound young. You’ve hung out with her twice already and you only made out? Hangout with her again and take charge. Once you start making out don’t stop, just keep escalating until she’s naked.

BFG_MP · 2019-07-13T17:16:48+00:00

I think you should drop the game as soon as you are in. For example you are hanging out 1 on 1 so instead of “playing hard to get” you should address the fact that you don’t like the way she is talking to you. Worse case scenario you’re exactly where you are right now. Best case scenario she’s talking to you in a more pleasant way and you’re getting down. Head games are bullshit and good for picking up girls for one night stands. If that’s what she was for you then you played it wrong otherwise be a real person once u gotem on the hook .

Title	Do I move on?
Author	Slaydro1
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	July 13, 2019 4:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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