Recently my latina girlfriend demanded that I learn to dance salsa.

Being open to try new things, I agreed. I took a few private lessons to get started, and then joined a beginners salsa class.

Being a musician, I got the basics very fast and soon I was starting to be able to hold my own on the dance floor.

This is amazing. I am dancing with all types of women. I found three things that make learning to dance a goldmine for the single man:

  1. I am dancing with all types of women. Sometimes older housewives, sometimes smoking hot girls my age and younger. I smile and practise giving good vibes to EVERY woman I dance with. This is a good exercise to learn not to put hot girls on a pedestal compared to someone you´re less attracted to. The hot girls see me having a good time dancing with the moms and grannies, and when it´s their turn to dance with me, it seems like they feel like they just got a price that they deserve more than the other women. My sense of self worth has skyrocketed. There are so many guys learning to dance that are boring, dress boring, act boring, don´t smile and so forth. Standing out is easy.

  2. Just the fact that you are learning to dance (not even being a dancer, just the WILLINGNESS to learn), seems to be extremely attractive to many of the girls who are taking these courses with me. I have already had a few girls be very visibly disappointed when I tell them I´m here to learn to dance with my girlfriend. If I was single, I would already have dates with some great girls, no question about it.

  3. Dancing makes you feel great! Part of your inner game (inner game is that greatly underestimated part of getting girls, read about it in the sidebar) is cultivating your own happiness and inner peace. Most people agree that singing makes you feel happy. There´s some kind of dopamine release in the brain when you sing. Dancing with hot girls is that times 10. You leave the dance floor feeling great, and you just can´t help but emit great vibes.

I am attending these courses alone as my girlfriend already knows how to dance. I´m highlighting this because I imagine some guys might be shy to go to a dance class without a partner. This has been NO ISSUE.

Many girls come there alone as well. Nobody has called me out for not bringing a girl, nobody has noticed, nobody has given me strange looks. The teachers are super happy to get single guys to the classes because most classes are overbooked with girls.

I am still a beginner but I am already having great fun and dancing with a lot of girls. You don´t need to be really good to start having a great experience. Dancing salsa is intimate. It is an amazing way to meet hot girls. Remember how you are taught to escalate and dare to be physical? It´s automatic when you are dancing!

Learn to dance! I dare you.