For me, I've had a few chances to lose my virginity in my life. One I was half nude in her bed and she said she wants to blow me. However, in situations like this, I always find a way to sabatoge myself. I always seem to get anxiety. I worry that I'm taking advantage of her (not like she's drunk, just taking advantage by convincing her to have sex), afraid of STDs, afraid of getting her pregnant, etc... I let these anxieties prevent me from going all the way, and sometimes they seep there way into the dating process in general. I can't beat my own LMR. Does anyone else have this kind of self sabotaging mindset? Has anyone beat it?