does Chad even ever get rejected?

zgwidd · 2019-12-19T14:28:51+00:00

Stop thinking in terms of “chad.” Is your name chad? Jeez this whole thing is actually stupid. Rejection is time for reflection. There could a multitude of things you did wrong or could do better. But no, instead of picking yourself up again and bettering yourself, you’re destroying yourself with terrible habits that you need to replace NOW. That’s not going to help your “pick up game” at all. It’s just going to make you worse and worse. Stop trying to be a “chad” and be the best version of yourself. For replacing those bad habits, I’d recommend the tamed course by Improvement Pill on YouTube. Good luck and stop putting yourself down, you deserve better and you know it. All the love.

miserablesisyphus · 2019-12-19T14:57:26+00:00

I'm not saying this to make you feel worse, but i think you have some personal issues you need to work out before you even try to pick-up women. Never in my life have I wanted to break stuff in my apartment due to being rejected by a woman. In fact, that's a terrible way to express your frustrations. Honestly, work on yourself first man and you'll get the ball rolling.

Pandaman0110 · 2019-12-19T14:26:37+00:00

Mindset. You have to choose not do those things

scarrax · 2019-12-19T21:49:09+00:00

"Chad" is literally a myth, and even guys who are close to the "Chad" stereotype get do get rejected all the time. In reality "Chad" guys just have a different mentality when it comes to women. They accept that rejection is inevitable regardless of who you are and don't place so much emphasis on it since it's really not such a big deal when you do get rejected.

Getting there takes time, effort, determination, and most importantly a willingness to change and improve. Before you engage in a behaviour, first ask yourself what good will it do? If you get rejected by a girl and break stuff in your apartment afterwards is that going to change her mind? Will being drunk or high to the point of numbness make you do better in your approach next time? Will wallowing in your room and jerking off for a couple months straight get you any closer to your goals with women? I guarantee you that the answer for all of those questions is no.

The real answer is to not let yourself succumb to your anger like that, if you let anger run your life then you honestly fail at life. If you get rejected by a girl understand that it it's not the end of the world: it really doesn't harm you much in the long run, any notion otherwise is all in your head. If it still makes you feel pain and anger then find a more productive and healthy outlet for it. For example, every time you get rejected by a girl do 10 pushups before you go to bed. That way each time you get rejected you do something that makes your body stronger.

Most importantly find something else in life that you can set goals for yourself on. Physical activity of any sort is the number one recommended thing for very good reasons. You don't have to bench press 4x your body weight, it can be swimming, cycling, running, boxing, or even gymnastics or anything else. if that floats your boat. Physical activity is great since you can set measurable and scalable goals that you can absolutely 100% achieve with the right amount of hard work, and you feel better about yourself when you do.

notyouraveragepapaya · 2019-12-20T02:11:04+00:00

Yikes, it sounds like you could use some therapy bud. That sounds really unhealthy.

Insaneflirt_max · 2019-12-20T04:09:03+00:00

Chad gets rejected more than you

Because

Chad approaches 9999times more than you

assman37 · 2019-12-20T08:01:54+00:00

I think this is an excellent question disregarding the Chad part and I also think it's the main problem I have. My answer: have a life besides chasing and approaching girls. Do you have friends, stuff you enjoy doing, hobbies, persuits?

In Chad terms... Chad has a life. He has friends, stuff he enjoys. In any given week there are pretty probably 2 or 3 things Chad is looking forward to. He gets external validation from his job, his family, his life and his friends. So if a girls rejects him it's no big deal. He was already happy all by himself.

I mean other than girls is there any thing you have going on. Can you even be happy without a girl? Because until you can you will have a hard time

lightening_mckeen · 2019-12-19T15:14:02+00:00

Incel alert LOL that’s why he gets rejected. The “stacys” can feel his vibe. LOL

Title	does Chad even ever get rejected?
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Date	December 19, 2019 2:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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