Does women like chubby guys?

BeatEm1802 · 2019-03-09T17:45:17+00:00

This will probably get downvoted, but whatever, I'll give my honest opinion.

All else equal, given the choice between a fit/average person and a chubby/fat person, she will choose the former. They're healthier, able to do more (running, hiking, swimming, whatever), hold greater social value (not saying whether or not it's right, but it's the way it is), and women want those things.

So, yes, most women won't choose chubby when a fit person of equal value is on the table.

Here's the good news though: you can change you. Unlike your height or bone structure, your body fat is 100% controlled by you. "but I have a conditi"—stop. Even if you have conditions that reduce the amount of calories your body naturally burns, you can still just eat less. It's all mental.

Here's the other good news: you can make your own social value. Work diligently, be confident in yourself and your abilities, don't stress over what others think of you. This will all increase your social value.

Don't give up brother, you can only move up from here

StarHaze_ · 2019-03-09T17:42:13+00:00

I bet theres a pretty small group of women that might like it. But im sure the big majority of women like someone thats fit or healthy looking. Imo it would be easier to start working out and attracting more women than waiting for the one girl that will love you and be entirely attracted to your personality (and/or chubby body)

LaxBrother · 2019-03-09T17:46:45+00:00

For the most part no. But I've seen ugly and fat dudes pull hot chicks so clearly it's not the only factor

thapussypatrol · 2019-03-09T17:57:43+00:00

I don't get the issue here - why not just trim up? after losing weight various times (on two occasions about a stone and a half, although I've never been fat) I can tell you there are ways that will make it incredibly easy to the point where you'll end up wondering why you never lost weight in the first place - always do what you can to stay in shape - it's great for your confidence too - if it's fat vs thin, it's thin. if it's thin vs muscular, it's muscular. but so things one at a time because you've got your whole life to do it - there are always ways to help you with seduction and keeping in good shape is absolutely one of them, and it's far easier than the social side of things

WhatsReddit123456 · 2019-03-11T20:16:08+00:00

There are girls who are into chubby guys. I think it's because they are more trusting of them knowing that a chubby guy is less likely to cheat on them (since they would have a harder time attracting girls as attractive or more attractive).

Title	Does women like chubby guys?
Author	nmka55
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Comments	5
Date	March 9, 2019 5:24 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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