Doing cold approaches when i already have a girlfriend

rodnue · 2019-08-31T16:41:51+00:00

Be single you’re being insensitive of your girlfriends feelings by doing that.

hunterpua · 2019-08-31T17:16:50+00:00

If you plan on friendzoning a hot girl that you approach that means you can't show any sexual intentions when you approach them otherwise you would just be contradicting yourself.

That's good because that means you will be approaching girls less sexually and more socially.

All you need to do is tell your girlfriend you want to be more social and then be more social.

Talk more with everyone, not just hot girls and make friends with everyone.

Its fine if you still have a preference for hot girls in your socializing as long as you aren't excluding everyone else.

And here's why: If you plan to friendzone a hot girl by only talking to her and just keeping communication open to her, its like you'll easily run into a brick wall.

Because one, you can only talk about so many things before the interaction just gets boring as fuck.

And two, when you get to that point, the only options you really have are to either let it fade away into nothing or sexualize things which would be bad if you're still with your girlfriend at that time.

Friendships are built on two things, common interests and repeatedly hanging out with each other.

Try to think about all your current friends, i.e. the people you'd be willing to have a beer with this weekend.

You share common interests with all those people and its either currently or at some point in your life where there was a period when you got to see them multiple times in a month.

So instead of friendzoning multiple separate hot girls and essentially just turning them into social media buddies, why not create social circles around the things you enjoy doing?

Maybe a bunch of people & hot girls you meet are really outdoorsy and you're into that too or you've always wanted to get into it, you can go do that stuff with them and therefore fulfill both criteria for a friendship.

You're enjoying common interests and you have a reason to see each other over and over.

By having groups around the things you enjoy doing, you bond better with all the individual members so if you were to break up with your current GF then one of your hot friends should just be a message away from coming to hang out with you and then you can sexualize things from there.

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2019-08-31T18:43:54+00:00

Spin plates end of story

bournit · 2019-08-31T20:17:34+00:00

Man, I know it's difficult. But trust less girls. Because also your gf has a lot of options, and the day in which you'll be more needy than ever, I promise it, she'll say goodbye to you. Because there are biological and sexual reasons for this. Not because they're "evil". It's just nature.

So : Don't trust. Continue approaching, but don't friend-zone, go further.

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Title	Doing cold approaches when i already have a girlfriend
Author	Kemetprince1
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	August 31, 2019 4:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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