Don't Chase! | seduction

I don't like to drive, driving is my biggest hindrance in Game. I went out today to a couple stores where two chicks gave me IOIs and none of them where there. Ah well. As soon as I got home I realized that you shouldn't I shouldn't have been chasin', because that was chasin'. Right, when I got out of the car there was a blonde that was right next to me. She smiled and said Hi and I did as well. I could have gotten her number but I was so stupid cause I was chasin' other girls. I could've said did you go to blah school. You look familiar. Simple. Then introduce my self. I think I could have got an instant date because I was feeling pretty good.

If a girl from the past gives you IOIs she might not be there anymore. Don't waste your time.
Be in the moment. If there's a girl right in front saying Hi, forget about the other ones.
Go out! Go out! Go out! This is my biggest problem doing day Game.

I will be going out every day now. Just to walk around and check out stores. I'm into photography so I'll be taking my camera gear to help attract attention. I have a 70-200mm lens which is freaking awesome just for that. People come up to me and talk to me when I do model shoots. I usually use Game for my social circle but I wanna expand.

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Yet again it all comes down to mindset.

Needy and chasing go together. You are chasing when you are needy.

pursuit + neediness = chasing

pursuit + desire = persistence

Desire is sexy, neediness is not. Persistence is sexy, neediness is not.

Desire is when you're attitude is like 'I want you, I think you're great, but I don't need you. My life will be great even without you'.

Neediness is when you're like 'I really want you, you're the only one, my life is shit without you'.

Think about it this way. Let's say 2 girls that you're not sure about text you. One of them texts you fun stuff, flirts, uses sexual innuendos but you never sense any desperation. You know and feel that she likes you, but you know that she won't make a big deal if you don't end up together. Now, the other girl keeps texting you as much as the first girl but she asks you all sorts of questions as if she was your girlfriend like where you've been, who's that girl you've been talking to, why are you not texting her more often and so on. Which one of the two do you find more attractive?

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[–]LoneWolf1404 -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

No, this post is not for me, this post is for new guys who are better off not doing what this guy is saying because they won't know how to persist and will end up chasing.

I like it how you've asked me to further detail my claims and then you've been trying to qualify me instead of saying yourself why you think my approach is wrong. Because if there's one surefire way to make yourself look like an absolute moron during a conversation, that would be attacking the other person and making it personal, instead of giving reasons as to why you disagree.

I don't get your point, because there is no point to get. The very fact that you felt like writing this nonsense 'Really go apply them and test them before you give advice to these poor fellas' after the very fact that I've just told you that I did apply and I currently am applying what I'm talking about, says a lot about yourself and your lacking mental capacity. The fact that you're ironically claiming that I'm bullshitting, doesn't remove those girls out of my dms and nor does it bring any in yours.

It's quite unfortunate for the new guys that this subreddit is full of bitter manipulative tryhards like you who are about as successful with women as the guys over on the other extreme - r/niceguys. The difference between me and you is that I've been in your position and I was still not understanding why girls weren't sucking my dick 24/7. After all I wasn't chasing, right? Whereas you haven't been in my current position and won't be anytime soon with your bitter mindset.

It's also hilarious how I and other guys are getting jumped each time we're making a claim outside of the ordinary 'Wow, she said no once bro? Move on man she's not interested. Whenever girls say no, you're done. It's a known fact that girls always gotta say yes when they're interested'. Because, you know, there's only one right approach out there and all the other ones are wrong. But, hey... at least the guys on r/seduction got it right, fk yeah.

I can only imagine how hilarious your approach is when it comes to shy / conservative / structured girls who will say no even though they like you. Who will refrain from texting you even though they like you. Who will refuse to go out with you even though they want to. And they're doing this because they want to make you work for it. Why? Because they want to sort out manipulative tryhards like you from genuine guys who aren't afraid that they might come across as 'needy' or 'chasing' by simply initiating contact.

Anyway, what do I know? After all I'm chasing so hard that these girls won't stop texting me... I'm such a nice guy xD

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[–]LoneWolf1404 -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Holy fuck you actually checked my past posts xD. Glad you did though because if you would've payed close attention you would've seen where I started from and where I am now.

Also who said anything about many many exes? None of those girls are exes, in fact I only talked about two of them, one of which I mentioned here, two posts above. Also the very fact that you think that having good game means not messing up ever, pretty much confirms what I said about you before: you're one of those morons who think that the only way pick-up works is constantly going up and never reaching any lows with a girl. Which probably means that you most likely give up as soon as you encounter any form of resistance from a girl because otherwise it would be chasing, right? xD

Also, if you read through them closely you would see how I progressed. I started from being totally clueless how to approach a girl to having really hot girls approach me, make moves on me, buy me drinks, ask for my social media etc. Why? Because the most important change that I made was embracing myself and being genuine, not the manipulative tryhard that you and other morons over here are, constantly worrying whether they're needy or chasing or not. I mentioned being in this situation myself, a while ago. You're either dyslexic or ignoring on purpose because you lack arguments.

What I've talked about in this post is not a matter of game, rather than mentality. I'm not claiming to have game, I'm firmly believing that I have the right mentality, one that makes up for the faults in my game. For a needy little bitch like you, yeah over-texting would be chasing. But not because you're over-texting, rather because you're a needy guy since you are concerned about the amount of texting you should do with a girl and other such nonsense.

The irony of this community is that most guys here are trying so hard to come across as needy, that they ignore that the very fact that they're worried about it is very needy in itself.

Acting manipulative is needy. If you're being genuine you will never come across as needy.

Also your retarded baseless claim that I'm making stuff up doesn't change the fact that I'm currently talking to 3 girls, as I said and that I'm hoping to be able to re-connect with the girl that felt she was being played. This also doesn't change the fact that I've reached those conclusions after reading about the things that I'm talking about and obviously applying them, so I'm very much entitled to talk about it here or anywhere else.

I also find it incredibly amusing how you have more posts in the past couple of days than I've had in the past 6 months xD. Tells a lot about how successful and exciting your dating life is. You're a walking stereotype of this community. Bitter loser who jumps on anybody who thinks otherwise than he does, and claims that anybody holding a different view doesn't know what they're talking about, yet he never leaves his mom's basement.

Now get lost and start your spamming spree. There's plenty of other threads in this subreddit where you can display your bitterness.

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No thanks I don't want to end up being a loser spamming some seduction page over the internet, because that's the only thing you've been doing for a long time. I really enjoy the attention I've been getting from girls and the opportunities that I have created for myself using the mindset I described.

Also not only I'm not a phony PUA, I'm neither phony, nor a PUA and never intended to be any of them. As I have already stated multiple times, you fucking retard, I too am speaking from experience and I don't care to compare who has the most or the better experience. Everything I've talked about has been working for me, especially since I've distanced myself from the basic PUA approach you are professing. I'm doing what works for me. What you conveniently choose to ignore over and over again is that I've been using the bullshit you and other losers are professing and the success was just too limited compared to what I'm experiencing right now. I guess you'll ignore what I just said a third time.

Also don't try to turn my words to make yourself sound better. I said I was clueless when I started reading psychology and dating advice about a year ago. I've made plenty of progress and I'm definitely improving. As far as pickup goes, I'm doing incredibly well, the only problems I'm encountering right now being girls feeling like I'm playing them after a while, as I have already described 2 times, but you're too retarded to comprehend. However, the approach I'm talking about has been helping me mend this flaw lately.

Out of curiosity, for once can you even attempt to give arguments as to why I'm supposedly wrong? You're throwing labels, qualifying but never giving any arguments. Do so or shut the fuck up you pathetic loser.

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Title	Don't Chase!
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Upvotes	4
Comments	26
Date	February 12, 2019 9:22 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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