Don’t know the right steps to move forward.

Alarmed_Box1198 · 2025-10-17T02:35:06+00:00

Just go tell the poor girl you like her in person. Have a plan where you want to take her and invite her along. Even if she says no, you won't regret getting out of your head and taking action. You got this.

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-10-17T03:40:29+00:00

Just ask for her number directly. IG is dumb. Be assertive and direct. Compliment her looks and tell her you want to take her out for drinks.

Silver-Wrap-2025 · 2025-10-17T02:17:01+00:00

Sorry but this obsessive mindset you have about "I need to make sure i'm not creepy, i need to make sure i'm not needy or weird"... Sorry, but normal people who aren't like crazy or extremely insecure aren't obsessing over shit like this. They don't give a fuck basically about people's perception of them.

This is why it's often said that confidence is important, because even if you have good looks, how on earth are you going to attract, let alone keep a woman interested long term when you are constantly doubting yourself every single time you want to do something?

Women can smell that insecurity easily mate and it repels them and makes them lose respect for you. Because it's like they are dealing with a child or even their son, rather than a man they can feel safe with knowing that he can lead himself without doubting himself.

You need to start doing what you want no matter the consequences simply because it's what you want to do and you shouldn't apologize for what you want ever.

So it's about verbalizing the risk and doing it anyways as in;

"If i do x action, she might think i'm weird or creepy and yet i'm going to do it anyway because it's what i want to do"

This is the right mindset! Another way of saying it is: "if you like me, you like me, if you hate me you hate me, i don't give a fuck"

Like you need to forget about the fucking consequences of your actions and just start aligning yourself with the actions you want to do, no

How do you expect to be a good boyfriend a good husband if you are constantly seeking reassurance from girls that you can do what you want? How can you expect them to respect you?

How do you expect them to admire you and follow your lead when you can't even fucking lead yourself?

Man up dude. Life is about being willing to go through ups and downs. you can't have the ups if you are always trying super hard to avoid the downs. You are way too comfortable in your safe space.

Title	Don’t know the right steps to move forward.
Author	DudeThatPlaysTheDude
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	October 17, 2025 2:01 AM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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