Whenever you approach a woman and get that dreaded "She's way too hot to be with me" feeling, the problem is you're thinking too much. When you don't have a solid foundation of self-confidence, you will tend to reject yourself before you give a her a chance to.

Instead, don't think, observe.

What is she doing? When you look at her, is she giving you strong eye contact? Do you make her nervous in a good way? Just because she looks like a Victoria Secret model doesn't mean she doesn't want an average-looking guy to approach her. Being average-looking is a bit tricky. If you're very masculine and confident, you'll be very attractive to her. If you're very weak and unsure of yourself, you'll turn her off instantly. When you're good-looking, women don't realize if you're a weak man who is unsure of himself because she was too infatuated by his looks.

So the moment you see a woman that looks "too hot for your approach", tell yourself, "she's super hot, let's see what happens when I approach her".

You may be shocked at the positive response you'll get. If the two of you build a little rapport, she may confess that she was hoping that you would approach her and was trying to get your attention all night.