So, long story short, I've mostly been upping my internet dating game (although face-to-face pickup still has its' role), and with a bit of "style" I'm able to get girls to agree I'm likeable enough to get them to meet up with me. You know the "We should meet up, what's your number?" deal. Living in a big city, this is very convenient, and I'm enjoying meeting new people, girls, flirt, and sometimes take it further.

Now I'm sure I'm not the only person who has run into the time roof issue of scheduling dates. Last week I had five dates, and I've got some girls in the "pipeline" so to say. Are there any good things to keep in mind to efficiently make use of my time?

For example:

  • Is "stringing dates" a horrible idea? As in, schedule a first-date for 3PM/15.00, and another for 5PM/17.00
  • Should I try to text different prospects into meeting me up while clubbing, and take it from there? Is it possible to juggle several girls during one night, or is it just asking for trouble?
  • Should I stop approaching girls when the pipeline is full, or keep at it and rearrange?
  • What's a healthy ratio of how many girls to stop seeing after the first date (because of no "chemistry", attraction, etc.)?

So far I'm just realizing that the "walk-date" is a great first one - cheap, "safe", social, healthy. Also, I should be picky in who I flirt with, date, proceed with. If I want to get laid, I should keep in mind that it can be speedy or slow to get to that point (but, to be honest, that's not my main goal here, so no biggie).

Any advice on this topic would be greatly appreciated. (I figured /r/seduction would be more willing to answer this than /r/dating_advice, f.ex., I hope it's not malplaced).